Seems to me that some guys are afraid of taking responsibilities, and I'd like to know if it's true. If it's true, what responsibilities are they afraid of then? Thanks for sharing.
2006-10-01 01:43:03 · 16 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I refer to it as "The Responsibility Coffin" Each thing becomes a nail that closes it just a little bit more until you can't escape. Nails can be such things as Debt, Marriage, Car, House, Pets and of course Kids. These are the things that can make you give up what you want to do and cause you to stay at a job you may hate which causes you to conform to normality and never become the chieftain you were biologically designed to attempt to become.
I also believe one of the biggest misunderstanding women have is the intensity of the emotion that is the "burden to provide". Even in today where women can earn just as much if not more then their men, men feel they need to be the safety net that catches everything when it falls. Women will probably never fully understand this or simply dismiss it as some, "Stupid Male Thing" but it exist and if a man isn't mature enough to accept it they will run.
2006-10-01 01:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by butnozzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage after a divorce. My boyfriend was divorced 20 years ago and he had a bad divorce and a wife who caused many problems to this day. And he refused to get married again. I think this is a cop out. We've been together 7 years and I have been resolved to the fact we probably won't get married. And children. Some guys just run the other way when you talk about kids.
2006-10-01 03:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by lazycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a real "guy" i'm not afraid of any responsibility, i guess it comes with the territory. Whatever it may be, i've always met it head-on and delt with it. i think you want to know why some guys can be cowards or lazy when it comes to responsibility.
2006-10-01 02:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by cabledog429 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly isn't the dedication section i'm frightened of, it truly is shifting too right now and being in a relationship i'm no longer even efficient i %. to be in. extremely some adult males can only leap into relationships all willy nilly devoid of even having good recommendations for the dissimilar human being, yet i will't be able to attempt this. i might want to prefer to base a relationship on a friendship first, it truly is needed. I have a tendency to flirt a lot and extremely some human beings absolutely take it heavily and at the same time as they start up up making it look like there might want to prefer to be some thing better I only freak, heavily. It makes me really uncomfortable round that correct. To make concerns worse i'm in instantly ahead words a truly pleasant human being and that i have were given a state-of-the-artwork time projecting a "decrease again off" vibe to them(even w/ my Scorpio increasing). So in effect, many might want to imagine of i'm returning any sorts of recommendations, at the same time as i'm no longer. after I weigh down on someone and they don't prepare any recommendations decrease again i'm getting harm, i'm the shape of hypocrite proper? I obsess over them for a week or so, then i'm over it. i imagine of i'm into this complete humorous buisness for the non eternal happiness, rushes you get once you both look into eachother and etc. extreme-tremendous question. Edit: Yeah! extremely some them only do not realize the deeper which technique of being in a relationship. in accordance to probability they are going to get better smart at the same time as they are older. If no longer, i will see myself all on my own in a messy living house listening to Celine Dion with cats crawling everywhere. =/ Leo sunlight & Mercury both in ninth living house Libra Moon & Venus both in 11th living house Gemini Mars
2016-11-25 20:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by vaibhav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men are afraid of taking any responsibility for anything, especially their own actions.
2006-10-01 01:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hardest responsibility to take is to care for a family specially kids.
being a husband or a father means
love and care, security and money
we surely love our wives and children but the other to factors can not be guaranteed
2006-10-01 02:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by 6SLV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid that after they have kids the wife will stay at home and they will be made to pay for mortage, car, utilities and food.
2006-10-01 01:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by devora k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we're afraid of anything that's remotely responsible we like being on couch with remote and chinese food and a hot broad end of story.
2006-10-01 01:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are afraid of committing to anything and also taking care of the kids they have
2006-10-01 01:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by VICTORIA L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, it will be the capability to raise a family, in life it is not just about getting into the sensation for having a galfriend but the ability to provide for her if we are to take one step towards marriage.
2006-10-01 02:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋