Whats a good way to explain that you want a divorce?

Answer 1

Sounds like you already know this is what you want and have made up your mind.
The fact that you could put it in writting was a big step.
If this is how you feel your partner may be relieved to hear it to.
If you have trouble saying it, write it down.
If you are not affraid...approach your partner face to face and talk about it. If you are affraid...make sure you have everything in place like a place to live and a way to take care of yourself.
Hope it works out like you want it to.

Answer 2

The best thing to do is make up an inventory of everything you have together and then start to put ones next to the ones you REALLY NEED! twos next to the second thing things you want and threes next to the things you could live with.

If this is an amicable split then the negations can begin if this is NOT a happy split share this list with your lawyer. If it is in a lawyers hands there is a real strong chance it will have NO emotional attachment just cash value, but a good lawyer will see that.

In most states it is a equal split of finances and all material goods will have a value to be sure the split is as equal as possible.

This is not a good time for you but I wish you the best of luck. Good book that is a quick read is called How to Survive the loss of a love. GL

Answer 3

"Honey I'm home", he says with a loud voice.

"Hi Hun, how was your day?"

"Couldn't be better Sweety, I just got a new raise on the job, and I have been promoted to Manager and I got my own office now with a real fine secretary that works overtime..by the way, I want a divorce"

"Oh I get it that's why you stay late after work hours telling me your in meeting, well you listen up buster, if you want a divorce from you better reach down deeeeeep (Yells) in your pocket because you forget I own 51% of the banks Stock you Poopus ***."

"I waz only kidding ( he yells) just kidding" he hugs her
End of Story written by Aldo Rosado

Answer 4

usually when you have tried everything to save the marriage and failed,,you get the 'calm' realisation that comes with knowing you are going to do the right thing,,telling them how you feel is a formality,,to you,,this is the end and nothing said can change your mind bacause you have lived and learned this marriage just doesnt work. problems seem to arise when the person asking for the divorce really doesnt want one,,they give the impression they can be talked round and this gives hope to the one being 'divorced'.if it is a final decision,tell them you tried but in the end...............an honest approach leaves no room for misinterpretation.

Answer 5

First by telling the truth, put all the pros and cons on the table in why you think you should get divorce. Ask yourself how it's going to affect all the is involved. Just don't think of yourself.

Answer 6

When I decided i wanted a divorce I hit the b*tch with a court date and a fryinging pan to the skull.

Answer 7

Why do you all come on here and not give us enough to help with this. Why do you want a divorce? Did something happen to make you do this? Cheat? changed? grown apart? don't like him? got to have more than this!!!!

Answer 8

depending on the circumstances, some deserve an explanation.
if he's one of those who does deserve it than pretty much just explain to him how you're feeling about things in your life and that he's not at that physical, social or emotional level with you that you need him to be in your life and the best thing for both of you at this point is to move on.
now if he's not worth anything, than just tell him that it was great when it was, but to keep myself sane, i need to think about myself and c-ya

Answer 9

See a Lawyer first, get everything in place then with all the plans in place, serve him with papers. But make sure you have somewhere else to go.

Answer 10

There is no good way except short, sharp and to the point. Then exit stage left.