im 13 years old and after having fun with friends, when i get home at night, i always say " i miss this day." i get all emotional and cry. this never used to happen to me before. or when i watch a video of me when i was younger id say "i wish i could go back in time, i wish i was that age again." why am i like this now?
2006-10-01 01:00:56 · 19 answers · asked by Fresh and in the flesh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your hormones are running amuck! It is normal at your age, take a moment and talk with mom, dad, sister, brother, confidant or school counselor. They will explain it to you.
2006-10-01 01:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Funny Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Honestly, I don't know and you should always talk to adults that you really trust if you are worried about your emotions. But if you are just feeling a little blue, I can understand that. I get weepy at movies. I look out windows and sigh sometimes. I get all dreamy and wonder what my life would be like if I were some where else. Some of this is just part of being a person. As a woman, you are a person who feels deeply and cares greatly. Learn the flow of your emotions and take the quiet moments for what they are, resting places on the road of life.
2006-10-01 08:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to learn how to deal with depression from the moment it hit. To this day when the curse of depression hits me, I grab the vacuum cleaner, the dust rag,the window cleaner and clean like a mad woman-even if my house is spotless. The energy you had for depression & sadness will be put into physical energy instead of staying on emotions of sadness. You can also hit the door and go for a walk.Walking takes away depression and helps to get your priorities straight.Also, at 13 U can help you mom with household chores to shift your mind from sadness,in turn helping your mom.Being an avid reader helps clear the mind. You don't want to be a sad person all your life so begin to use self help with things listed above. I have a friend that is always down,always sad. This person I stay away from because she'll have me thinking negative if I listen to her crying about everything that is bothering her.
No we can't fix everything, but we can change our thoughts and get it off our mind. Your school should have a counselor, find out & have talks with that person. Also, there are websites for teen depression, type in your search bar "help for teen depression".
You are sooo young, don't give your brilliant mind and spirit over to depression...Fight it everytime it grabs you. I saw 2 young people planted in the graveyard from depression, no-one knew they were loaded with depression---please reach out,someone close to you can & will help.Start now. Best of luck !!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 08:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sad thing is you are only 13 what is going to happen when you turn 25 or 35?
it's good to remember the fun times, but you are young enough to make some new and better memories.
it could be you are afraid of losing something close to you, or being left alone at a young age.
just remember that every day will bring new and better memories
2006-10-01 08:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not doing enough with your life. Change your ways and try a new recreation for excitement like ,Swimming more or Tennis, Golf, painting, skating, Horseback riding...ect
When we decide to move in life and start doing things instead of saying "Naa, I wanna do something else". Everytime time you choose not to go or do it regardless of cost. you have had a Missed Opportunity.
So you chose door number 1 "Whats behind door number two and behold a nice vacation in Hawaii "hurray"
So you chose chose dooor number 1 "Whats behind door number three and behold a three nights stay at the Sheraton inClearwater Beach, Florida a luxurous Hotel with fine accomodations"
LETS se what door you chose "Open number 1 Bob".
The little Mice playing on the wheel./
2006-10-01 08:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are becoming a teenager. Emotions will be a rollercoaster for the next 3-4 years. Don't worry, you aren't alone.
2006-10-01 08:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen depression is more common than you know. Talk with an adult who is in a position to help you-and who wont ridicule you. You may get some good referrals-maybe you have a hormone imbalance. But at this age, hormones are going crazy anyway...talk with an adult you trust. They can help.
2006-10-01 08:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life will always change. you are growing up and are becoming who you are meant to be. I'm sure you have had some great fun in the past and i'm sure you will have great fun in the future. There will always be memories that will stick out in your mind and yes it would be nice to relive those days. But you have to move forward. have a nice life! :)
2006-10-01 08:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by im_my_own_number_1fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so sweet you are experiencing whats called growing up and you sound like me we wear are emotions on our sleaves meaning we do not hold our feeling in....you are ok and you seem to be going through a very natural part of life now remember everyone is different,,,,,,so go with it your going to grow into a beautiful loving young woman.....bless you sureilll
2006-10-01 08:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's called hormones, and at your age they are raging through your body with reckless abandon. Welcome to the joy of being a woman. No one will ever figure our emotions out, even us! Good luck.
2006-10-01 08:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋