i have been trying to get over my ex girlfreind for months now and it feels like my feeling for her are haunting me,i think about her all the time and always wounder what she is doing,for some strange reason i feel like she is living a better life than me becuse um the one that thinks about her,and everytime i meet a new person they do something to make me wish my life was better with my ex even though she was the one that dumped me,i hate the fact that my ex doesn't call me nor does she wanna see me the last time i spoke to my ex she told me that if she wanted to talk to me she would have called me,and when i bumped into her at a night club she told me that she has already had me! and then walked away and slow danced with like 5 guys in the club right infront of my face there was nothing that i could do so i didn't ,but i did think about it the whole day,is that saying true that if u love someone u let them go,becuse its so hard for me to let her go i realy wish i still had her
2006-10-01 00:30:28 · 7 answers · asked by bigboi64 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I mean this in the nicest way:
Your ex-girlfriend sounds like a huge b**ch!
Believe me, I know how hard it is when you break up with someone, especially when it wasn't a mutual split, but can't you see how lucky you are to not be dating her.
If she cared about you as a person at all, she would be nice to you, but it sounds like she just wants to have fun right now in her life.
You deserve better, and sulking about her just lets her win.
She is not leading a better life than you. You are a caring person who can make long term commitments, and in life you will find love and happiness because of this. She is going to bounce around from man to man and eventually become very unhappy and realize what she had and be upset that she let you go.
Don't hold your breath until that happens.
Move on with your life. She doesn't deserve you, and there are a lot of nice girls out there who will appreciate you for who you are.
2006-10-01 00:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same state except that i am the girl. Move on with your life,its useless crying over the past,there is hell alot to be done in this world apart from sulikn over the past
2006-10-01 00:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 07:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop obsessing about her, it's not healthy. Why wallow in the poor me syndrome: "my life was better with my ex", obviously it wasn't or she wouldn't have broken up with you. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and move on, she clearly has.
2006-10-01 00:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let her go...and if she cared about u she wouldnt dance with 5 guys in front of you..to me that lacks disrespect..time wont heal ur wounds but u will learn to adapt and grow used to it...dont enter into another relationship until you are over your ex thats unhealthy and can cause serious pain to another person..wait till u have it all to give..good luck
2006-10-01 00:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor u. im almost in the same situation. Commit together a suicide! :) :(
2006-10-01 00:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
quit ur crying
2006-10-01 00:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋