2006-10-01 00:21:57 · 12 answers · asked by docKnowitall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks for all your answers....the reason I wanted to try online is that my feelings/thoughts keep changing all the time...same with my spouse..one min..she's nice and wants to talk..next shes not...and i don't know if it will help...i have serious doubts about going to a total stranger and bearing it all...however on the web it just seems more anonymous and open and easier basically..so i get an idea of where i am..before we got for the actual appt together..face to face i mean..or i could just got for a face to face one alone..i just want to know if i am as wrong as she she thinks i am..right now i've just had a bitter fight and am crashing it out alone for the next few days. Thanks for all the answers ....diverse but helpful
2006-10-01 21:00:10 · update #1
2 buttons on the right.
You got a web of specialists with real life experiences and it is FREE.
2006-10-01 00:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't. There is no way of knowing if the people on the web are qualified unless they are recommended by a professional you know. For something this serious, you want to see someone in your area. Check with your community as you may find this service is offered for little cost, or on a sliding pay scale. I admire you for seeking help instead of just running form conflict. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-01 00:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and only you can work out your marital problems. You and your spouse need to communicate more and talk things out with out subjecting the talking to the anger point.
You're seeking advice on the WEB and where you should be seeking advice is from with in yourself!
The only time a 3rd party should be introduced to your equational marital difficulty is when you and your spouse are unable to solve the problems for yourselves.
2006-10-01 01:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-01 01:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I would be looking for help with your marital problems from counselors on the web unless you were going to locate one for a office visit, then I recommend that you go to Superpages.com and search there for marriage counselors in your area.
2006-10-01 01:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have used a great guy who does sessions on the phone and face to face dependent on where you are.
He is based in London and his name is Alain Youell. You may find him on the internet by going to google and putting his name in.
He does all kinds of therapy and will probably be able to point you in the direction of someone closer to you.
2006-10-01 00:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pros is that it doesn't cost as much as traditional counseling and that it's convenient for your time, but the draw backs are it's a lot more drawn out and not personal, it doesn't bring up the emotions as much.
2006-10-01 00:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im training to be a counsellor and psychotherapist and this is actually frowned upon in this community we dont agree with it at all id rethink it and go see someone
2006-10-01 00:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats up, Hubby not find you attractive anymore, starting to look elsewhere? Tone up and start to think of ways to please him or you will find yourself looking a t a very lonely future. It may already be too late if he has someone doing all those special things he likes and not whining and complaing all the time.
2006-10-01 00:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it would be better to talk to your as you are the onlt two who can sort the problem out good luck
2006-10-01 00:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Edward B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋