A guy seemed to change his mind about getting intimate with me, although he asked for intimacy first. He asked me quite a few questions about my thoughts on physical intimacy with him, and then he seemed to put me off. He even said that we should leave things to fate to see what would happen in the future. I thought he was telling me that he wouldn't want to get intimate, but then things took a different turn yesterday when we chatted on line. He gave me a detailed plan on our physical intimacy, like the time and place for us to meet. I wonder if he actually wanted to get intimate with me but wasn't 100% sure of my attitude on this, so he decided to put me off until he knew my real intention. Since I'm unsure if my hunch is correct, I'd like to hear what you think. Please share with me your invaluable opinions on this, and your opinions are greatly appreciated.
2006-10-01 00:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by patience s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes, he was after sex but wanted to check out your intention before going into details. Make sure he'll use a condomn.
2006-10-01 01:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, my crystal ball is in the shop getting new muffler bearings. How do you expect to get any kind of an answer. What do we know about you? Absolutely nothing. Are you 14, or 62? It does make a difference. Is this person someone you know, or did you just happen to run into him on line. My suggestion would be, if you have any doubts, don't. If you aren't married to this person, don't. What are the chances of either pregnancy, or sexually transmitted diseases? If anything other than zero percent chance, don't. Bottom line, don't.
2006-10-01 07:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by oklatom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds weird. Why would he be planning it online? I believe that you need to be sure yourself. Do you like this person? Do you know this person? Would you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Don't jump into it if you are not ready for what might happen. Why is he only asking questions about physical intimacy? I hope he wants to know more about you than that. I would hope you go out to get to know each other on another level before trying to be physical. I would be careful. I think this sounds odd. I have never had a guy make plans like that. I have had a guy make plans to go out to eat, movies, the fair, etc... I wish you wisdom, strength, and courage.
2006-10-01 07:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree that this sounds weird...call me old fashion but I have my doubts about the whole on-line dating thing... do you know him "for real"?? You need to go out on dates, have fun and really get to know each other, if the there is "magic/chemistry" the intimacy part will just happen!
2006-10-01 07:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is playing with you and is dangerous. You don't give your age, he is probably a pedophile. Never meet someone on line it is very dangerous.
2006-10-01 07:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by jackie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey? Wanna do something?????????? huh
2006-10-01 07:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋