Obviously you are turned on by men who are sensitive, attentive, well groomed and not after sex on the first (or subsequent) dates.
Lower your standards a bit and you will be more likely to find a suitable straight man.
By the way, we have a complaint too. Why do most of the well built, hunky men turn out to be straight. It is just as frustrating to us.
2006-10-01 00:44:59
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answered by roqofages 3
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well, not all the good lookin men are homosexual. I've known some who are splendidly ugly but it's not the point here. Some str8 guys are also good-lookin... if you always find a guy you like that turn out to be gay, then it may be the inner personality that really attracts you...
and yo guicode! Caring about how we look doesn't make us self-centered! I think you are the type of person that employs a word in a sentence without knowing the meaning of that word.
2006-10-01 05:47:50
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answered by Gilno E 3
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Well, the obvious conclusion to draw here is that the dimwit above me is NOT gay.
And men wonder why us women turn to homosexuality.... if every man was like him, there would be no straight girls left...
Gay guys are hot because they look after themselves!
You idgit C Fowler - I was being tongue in cheek. I thought someone like you could see that.....
2006-10-01 02:28:08
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answered by Anonymous
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i dont think u shud lower ur expectations....like the first guy said...
beauty lies in the eyes of the beholer....cliched,i know, but true....
i've been in love with a guy for the past 4 yrs....he's not exactly good looking(by the normally accepted definitions atleast).....but i've grown to look at him as a very sexy,level-headed,decent and mature guy who loves me for who i am and not what i am.....i dont think i would have started going out with him if i hadn't first started being friendly with him but now m glad i did!!!!life's so much more beautiful with him around!!!
finally,remember that external/physical beauty is mortal.....
hope this at least lifted your spirits if nothing else!
bless u!
2006-10-01 07:15:47
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answered by questiongirl14 2
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i detect it unhappy that individuals are judging gay adult males through their visual charm, no matter if in a adverse way or sensible. seem on the individuals right here saying that adult males who have a tendency to be gay are warm and, worse, gay adult males are regularly female subsequently unattractive - what's this insanity? because even as sexuality makes someone ugly or warm? No, no longer all gay adult males are eye-catching, clone of how no longer all immediately adult males are hobos and badly groomed. there is hotness in all type of adult males. some gay adult males might want to 'standout' because they favor to seem good and entice yet another gay male - both gay and immediately adult males are seen, so so that you could seem fairly magnificent in the front of them (that's why women individuals positioned on makeup and position self assurance in elegance products - in case you want to entice a guy). human beings like Viola and Claire sound like jealous women individuals, who, deep interior, are in touch in gay adult males, yet because of their selfishness and egos they could't say that there are eye-catching gay adult males available. How might want to you say such ignorant issues which consists of so few individuals being eye-catching? We are available such fairly some diverse hues like immediately adult males - again - There are both warm and unsightly human beings interior our community. Get some common sense. Andee, with all due recognize, you're a lesbian. Why do you should badmouth a gay guy's seem? for sure you'll not have an interest in him, NOR a immediately guy, so why communicate? you probable like immediately adult males extra because they hit on you and we do not. i truly wish that you're a troll. For the list, i do no longer locate Matt Bomer eye-catching (Neil Patrick Harris seems cuter, even with if he isn't any longer my type too). i'm extra into adult males that resemble Ricky Martin.
2016-12-04 02:20:40
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answered by ? 4
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Most gay men actually care more about they way they look then heterosexuals...I'm not sure why..perhaps it the feminine side of them? I really don't know but who cares..a cute guy is a cute guy and it doesn't matter if he is gay or not! LOL
2006-10-01 01:45:59
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answered by KathyS 7
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First off ignore tannface's response, he clearly has issues. But pansy has the right idea. Gay men love men. It is therefore natural for a man who wishes to attract another man, to present himself in the best possible light. Gay men also tend to be more refined, this is not a slag against str8 men, just a truism. Gay men also have a need to be in the best shape possible just to be noticed. Strangely or more accurate to say ironically, gay men tend to be more caveman like in this regard. Natural selection demands that the fittest survive and thrive. Thus, Gay men excel at being the best they can be, whereas many str8 men simply settle for what they have. No judgement here just they way it is.
2006-10-01 01:31:25
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answered by Anonymous
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To be self-centered is more common among gay men... thus the extra time spent in front of a mirror. Few straight men read fashion magazines. And those that do are probably gay or at least bisexual.
2006-10-01 04:43:43
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answered by guicoder 3
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There are some really nice looking heterosexual guys out there.
2006-10-01 04:41:05
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answered by spiritcavegrl 7
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Thanks ! lol , I am not sure it is the case though ! Its a stereotype, although some gays work hard to stay good looking and in shape, but your only seeing a percentage of the gay population. So many like me are just "average" most gays I meet think I am straight., Its hard.
2006-10-01 04:30:16
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answered by nicenvt 2
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