i'm deeply in love with a married woman (Margaret Chin Chye Ying of Woodlands Blk 539).we had been together for about a year and a half,we love each other very much.she told me that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me and she even told me that she'll loves me regardless of what situation.but in August,her husband had discovered our relationship.she denied me at first,she stopped meeting me and even stopped calling me.in the end she chose to be with her own family.......can anyone enlighten me,is all girls a liar?woman cannot be trusted?is all those promises that she once made just a fairy tale to me?????
2006-09-30 23:54:45 · 24 answers · asked by a.c. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not all women all are liars but there is an old saying once a cheat always a cheat. I don't know if I would trust her, if she would cheat on her husband who she vowed to spend the rest of her life with in front of God and man what makes you think she wouldn't do it to you? It is your life but just just know that your love will be taken seriously by a woman all you have to do is find that special woman.
2006-10-01 00:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dcham81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is a liar, and no one can be trusted. Why are having a relationship with a married woman anyway! Don't put the blame fully on someone, as you should have thought of the consequences before getting involved.
Wake up and realise- it's all over. Those promises she once made is a fairy tale now, because you can't get her. You won't let go. How often are you going to see another Cinderella on the streets?
Finally, I'd like to say that this is not a bias judgement. If you want me to put down the lady, I'd do it. It just ain't in the question for me to do so.
Take care. :)
2006-10-01 00:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off some women are like that and some simply aren't, but you didn't have a right messing with a married woman in the first place. If she really did love you she would've left her husband and her family for you. Or she wouldn't have denied you or anything.
She would've told the truth and that would've been the end. For all you know you might have just been a test, to test herself to see if she still had the abilities to attract. She might have had problems in her marriage but that doesn't make her any more saintly. You were both wrong in the relationship.
But seriously some women are like that and some simply aren't. You just have to decide that for yourself when you do meet someone new. Just don't go for married or already involved women try getting a single and run like hell if they are married or involved it'll only turn out bad.
2006-10-01 00:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's word is only as good as the woman. You had a scummy relationship with a married woman. That in itself proves her word was meaningless, and also that you deserved nothing better than a lying slutty cheater. Sorry, but that is what it was. Why would you expect a liar to not lie? Some day, you will find a woman and get married. I hope that she cheats on you. That way, you can enjoy the same hell you helped make for your lover's husband. When it happens, remember that what you feel, is what you did to another guy.
2006-10-01 00:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, respect her decison and her family welfare. unless you're willing to assume the full responsibilities as a family member?
only you know whether she's lying or not. at the heat of the affair, she's telling you the truth and pouring her heart out and be comforted, its probably her true words. if not would she be "true" toy ou and for an entire year? being married and probably with children, she has her commitments to them if not her husband and thus for her present decision.
she may also be emotionally driven to you and one thing lead to another, the relationship went deeper? bet you're her first affair outside her marriage? be consoled by that?
you should also be prepared for such eventualities knowing she's married. do you really love her and willing to assume responsibilities like her husband?
Or you're attracted to the companionship, emotional comfort and physical needs the realtionship brings and without real commitments?
Loving a person as in a courtship but loving her being a married married woman with a family is entirely another matter for she's commited.
Cool down and rethink and its not fair to judge her with your present emotional state. Let time heal the wound you're suffering and hopefully hear herside of the story for it would be obvious and hope you understand and accept.
if she has a torn marriage and beyond salvage, love and taking over responsibilites maybe the final solution. a woman needs not only love, comfort and companionship but support and shelter too.
treasure the times you had with her, learn from the experience for a wiser and fruitful future encounter?
let it and her go for the sake of love and you'll forget as time will heal. love is not only from the heart but from the head as well.
sorry if I touched on sensative areas, just my 2 cents worth.
2006-10-01 14:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! not all women are liars, just the one you had an affair with was.
Sometimes when affairs occur, the one thats married is usually only after the sex because maybe their partners aren't too good in the bed.
They FOOL you into loving them, and most of the time IT WORKS!!
BUT, i'm not saying this is about the ladies, its generally married people all together when they have an affair.
Pick your people carefully ;-)
2006-10-01 00:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she obviously can't be trusted she lied to her husband for as long as you two were together, and don't get mad at me i think you shouldn't be with her its wrong and you should have her all for yourself if she really does love you but anyway don't attribute that trait to all females because it's not true.. hope you have a somewhat happy ending
2006-10-01 00:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by mystique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - The Quran is not the word of prophet Muhammad but the Word of Allah, The Only true God of John 17:3 Who the Christ worshipped and to Whom the Christ prayed. Secondly - Your attacks on Muhammad is kids'- stuff compared to the Bible's attacks on the Virgin and her son in that Christianity uses the Bible to worship Jesus as the son of the Virgin when the Bible accuses the Virgin-mother of adultery and makes the son illegitimate and has Joseph come out of nowhere to want to have the virgin stoned to death for adultery with the Father. The Father has to be accused of taking the virgin as wife while she was betrothed to Joseph and we are yet to be told at what age the virgin became the wife of the Father and cheated om Joseph and at what age the virgin went to bed with her lover and outside of wedlock. The Quran confirms that the making of the virgin's son to be conceived outside of wedlock and in betrayal of a man that formed no part of any prophecy as a grave false charge against the Christ and his mother. The Quran makes both the Christ and his mother two purified human beings without the curse of adultery and crucifixion. Come to Islam for the Truth. Allahu Akbarr! Peace!
2016-03-18 03:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"can anyone enlighten me,is all girls a liar? woman cannot be trusted?"
No, it's not her gender, it's just that all asians are liars.... no.. wait... an atitude like that would be racist and illogical wouldn't it?
2006-10-01 00:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, men doesn't matter who you are talking about. Many people lie.. Past actions indicate future actions so read that how you want to
2006-10-01 00:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋