iam muslim...and i love an ortodox girl...
we love eachother soooooo much
i wanna marry her but she tells me that the religion is the onlyy problem..what can i do ???
2006-09-30 23:28:08 · 9 answers · asked by mr. k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know as a Muslim that the only way for your family and community to accept this marriage is for her to convert.
That is the reality. You can't marry her with the hope that one day she will change. Also, she probably wants to marry in the Orthodox way and it is impossible to do that with you being a Muslim.
You must end this relationship.
2006-10-01 00:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there! You know, you are a follower of the beautiful and true religion i.e. Islam. Brother, don't let your believe, shake. Just be optimistic and patient. Try to do some research on Islam, make your believe strong and then try to show your girlfriend that how beautiful is Islam. Try to clear the misconceptions about Islam in her mind. Make yourself a good example as a Muslim.
If you do so, I am sure that she will understand and may be she will think of converting into a Muslim herself.
Visit;
http://www.irf.net/irf/faqonislam/index.htm
It will help you a lot.
Brother, just ask for the help from Allah the Almighty and Inshallah you will have the right path to walk on.
God Bless ^__^
2006-10-01 00:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If religion is a problem now it will be after marriage.
I am not commenting on the value of any belief system, but, if your beliefs are substantially different it will cause conflict and more problems.
Even in Christianity a devout Catholic could encounter conflict with a a devout Baptist.
Wait and put off thoughts of marriage for a good while and get a real feel for trying to balance different beliefs. It's not easy.
2006-09-30 23:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religion doesn't do anything . Like christian and catholic basically worship the same god except the rituals are different , that's all . You should tell her that having different religion would makes a different just because of the ritual . The one that counts is your love for each other not the religion ...
2006-09-30 23:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by joan_axel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning there was really no religion but there is love between our first parents. So stay on the basics, look for what is common between the two of you and start life.
God bless both of you!
2006-09-30 23:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by edconda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love some one you wouldnt want to change them.
Perhaps the right person for you has the same religious beliefs,
If you ignore your muslem up bringing you will find yourself in personal turmoil after your wedding , unless you do not believe in it, and can give it up. Enjoy now for now.
2006-09-30 23:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are looking for stronger reasons as excuses.
religion was never made to become a humans lifes' barrier or hinderance. instead it was made to guide him.
think logically and if it seems you are right from all sides - then you are right , explain the same to your gf. if she agrees good, if she does not then its her fault
2006-09-30 23:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y should it be a problem.
Muslim men can marry christians, and I dont think that christians mind.
Stick 2 ur religion man, it is ur saving boat.
2006-09-30 23:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.genuine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can both of you become atheist?
What is more important? love or religion?
2006-09-30 23:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋