He tries to get himself invited to her place and tells her not to tell you.She tells you, you confront him and he denies it vigorously.You let it go the first time. Your friend has a fiancee and they make plans to marry. You are happy for them ad tell your husband. What does he do? He calls her up and says he is in love with her and then offcourse tells her to keep it from you. She naturally tells you.
2006-09-30 23:25:06 · 33 answers · asked by Tansy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi there! I just want to say that, talk to him in privacy and listen to what he has got to say then try talking to him in front of your friend and her fiancé( if she has no problem to invite him as well) so that he could not deny the fact that he tried to get to her.
When everything becomes clear in front of you, after that just do whatever you feel like.
Have you have any children? If yes, think; is it better for them to live with a man like your husband?
It's you who have to be strong and take a decision for you and your children’s (if any) future.
Best of luck (Y)
God Bless ^__^
2006-09-30 23:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What motive could your friend have for hurting you like that?
Do you feel better knowing? All she had to do is tell him clearly to back off. Never take the word of a friend over a husband. If there is impropriety ; you will soon discover it on your own.
She should busy herself with her wedding plans and include you if it is mutual but that is all. Should you forgive your husband ; you will now think of this everytime you see her. What will that do to the "friendship"?
I would never tell my friend anything that would devestate her. I would simply be a safety net for her in all things. And if that situation arised with her husband I would tell him to back the he*L up. From then on I wouldn't receive any communication from him. I would record him. When and if my friend decided on her own to take an action such as a divorce ; then I would give her the evidence so that she could benefit legally.
2006-09-30 23:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men sometimes have a knack for being dumb when it comes to sex and infidelity,if he is so hard up on having his way , set him up with your friend tape everything and take him for all that he is worth, but before hand sit down and ask him if what you do as a woman satisfies him so he would have a chance to reflect on his relationship with you,since this may bring about a change of heart and get your relationship back on track,good luck
2006-09-30 23:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is more of a friend too you, and he well you probably know. Your trust in him will finally diminish. You need to get a handle on this before it gets out of hand. His infatuation with your friend is strong for him to return after the fiist go round. Have a sit down and tell him how you feel.
2006-09-30 23:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by seaking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to find a husband as good as your friend. I know it would be difficult to leave him but you must before your carpet of dignity is yanked right out from under you. If he is so bold to hit on your friend the way he does, imagine how many anonymous women he must mess with.
2006-09-30 23:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by enit4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girlfriend to help get evidence. Have her record a conversation with him where she asks him if he was serious and stuff. You can use it in divorce court. Your going to want revenge. Who knows how many affairs this stupid jackass has had. Also there is a possibility she is making it up (though I see no incentive here) but asking her to do this will prove it for you. You need to make sure before you divorce but once you know for sure drop him.
2006-09-30 23:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend is same way guilty. she could have informed you before being hit. do the same thing with your friends fiancee. she is no way suitable for being any body's friend. don't break your relationship with your husband for such a friend. next time whenever your friend tells you like this ignore. love your husband more he will be yours forever.
2006-09-30 23:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AND WHY ARE YOU STILL MARRIED TO THIS JERK?If he is going to hit on your best friend,there is no telling who he has already cheated with.He is definitely a LOSER get out of that marriage.
2006-10-01 02:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once shame on you.Fool me twice shame on me.Dump the jerk.Obviously he is at the very least looking around.Why let him keep hurting you like this.You deserve much better.
2006-09-30 23:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him if he would like a 3 some
2006-09-30 23:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋