she treats me so uncaring, while i treat her like a baby, i make all the food and serve them, but she could'nt make coffe for me.i was told i am beign too good to her. her ex man stole her kid for 4yrs without letting her talk to the kid, did a lot of outragous things against her, she was only allowed to see the kid 2 weeks ago.now she wants to go back to her exman who' 40 yrs older. she's 33 am 44yrs.she wants to park out from me, so her ex-man can visit her, and then planning to join him later. i am still all around her helping her move bought items to the new house and other manly task involved inthe arrangement, despite all these help, i still get no care and shows me all signs of hatrage, i know if she moves it's the end for both of us since9months we dont make lov again,am arrangin a house for another man! i wanted to take a hard stand long ago and let her do things on her own, but looking at her and rememberin our times together, i see her as a sister too. please what do i?
2006-09-30 22:51:04 · 6 answers · asked by nwokeoma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey, you need professional help on this one. This relationship is one-sided, mentally/emotionally abusive to you. You need to walk away as fast as you can from her, she's using you for all that you have given/done for her. You need to stop now and move on. Please seek professional help soon, it will help you sort out your feelings better than this site can. Good luck.
2006-10-01 00:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please stay away from her before it's too late.Dear,it's so clear to me that you're suffering from this so called relationship everyday.You deserve someone better and i'm sure there's someone out there waiting for you.It'll be hard in the beginning,but you'll be much more happier and feel lighter with someone else without any attachment like she has.Since,your help is needed now,and knowing her past relationship with a guy like that,she may display some dramas if you try to leave her,just ignore them.Run as fast as you can and never look back.Life's too good.You deserve someone like you,got it?
2006-10-01 06:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were a good man by giving her honest affection.
now she understands her own future...it is with her ex.
you should depart from her life soon.
what times together? she is not thinking so.
you were her servant at the start, middle, and finish.
2006-10-01 05:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U see her as a sister?????I'm getting confused. I think that you are being taken for a ride. She doesn;t deserve your generosity.
2006-10-01 05:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used. cheap labor.
break up and leave her and end the misery.
2006-10-01 05:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her, your to honest for her its not fair for you to do things for her and her ex.
hope goes well
2006-10-01 05:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋