i have a friend who just had a boyfriend.The problem is she trust her boyfriend 100% more than me.She think her bf is really a good guy but he is not a really good guy.I know this because i met him with another girl at mall.I told my friend about that but she doesn't believe me. now shedoesn't greet me anymore.Pleassssse help me on how to give her advice n we'll be friend again.
TQ.
2006-09-30 22:45:23 · 8 answers · asked by citrine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give him time, he'll get himself caught. Sometimes we don't want to believe something hurtful about someone we're seeing, because that makes us question our judgment about that person and most people don't want to question themselves. Just give him time, your friend will find out what this guy is like sooner or later, just be there for her when it happens and don't say "I told you so", that's just pouring salt in an open wound, it hurts.
2006-10-01 01:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait her out. As tough as it is, you'll have to let her make her own mistake on this one. The old saying goes "If you love something, let it go." You should let your friend go for awhile. Don't worry, soon she'll see him for the moron that he is and you two will end up closer than ever. Concentrate on schoolwork or something for now so you have plenty of free time to hang out with her when she gets out of her phase. Also, you should learn from her mistake and not be the type of person that abandons her friends when you find a boyfriend.
2006-10-01 05:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a picture of him with the other girll. Small digi cameras are cheap
2006-10-01 05:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't push it into the ground back off him a little and be ready to help her pick up the pieces when he lives up to his rep, best wishes
2006-10-01 05:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. It seems like she doesn't value your friendship anyway. She must be brainwash.
Just be there to say "I told you so." Well, you don't have to actually say it... but she will sense it.
2006-10-01 05:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be friend for a while.
she thinks you did wrong.
you should travel, or try to make new friend.
2006-10-01 06:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
VIDEOs And PHONECAMS DO WONDERS...
2006-10-01 11:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by bopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should apologise.
2006-10-01 09:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by lupino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋