And I am referring to myself for this reason. Call it being insecure, low self-esteem, or no confidence.
It was happy and sunny and shiny initially. And then some little differences in the relationship. And has it happened to you before the better u try to be the worst it becomes???
And you know u can be independent and not so emotional towards certain things and yet ur show dependence and emotions to the guy u r dating.. and it all comes falling apart... And the more u try to salvage the faster the feelings erode away..
Silly I know, but the thing is how not to do it again...
U r talking about a girl with no patience, no self confidence, but attractive
2006-09-30 22:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are attractive, like you say you are, then you should just leave your current boyfriend. I have many single male friends waiting to date girls like you...not too independent and someone with emotion.
So leave your boyfriend TODAY, and give me a buzz. I have many friends who have no patience too, and they like relationships to move very fast. So fast that even Supergirl can't take it.
About your having no self-confidence, don't worry, all my friends are Don Juans and Casanovas, and I know for sure that they can turn you into a woman in just one night ; )
You're attractive right?
2006-10-01 03:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by J L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, it had a lot to do with your character. Nobody is born to be a winner. There are certain things you really can't be very impatient and you need a lot of patience to build up a strong relationship. This is something never easy coz building up a relationship, you will face a lot of different challenges and every challenges may become tougher and tougher. If you can managed to overcome them one by one, I think your relationship will be more stronger with a good foundation, otherwise you have to learn to let go the relationship coz there is no point hanging to something that is going breakoff anytime.
Think it over carefully
2006-10-01 11:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ask yourself if you can live without him. If not, train your mind to believe you can. Then live your life the way you would as if he's not there. If you become dependent on him, you'll be just dead-weight on him. No wonder he's drawing away from you. Seriously, no one wants to feel suffocated.
The best you can be, is to continue to be who you were before you met him. That is the person he fell in love with. If you change and become clingy, he'll go further and further away from you. It's like the negative force of two magnets: the negative poles—repel each other. The more you try to force it, the more it pushes the other away.
2006-10-01 05:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when such things happen. there are only two ways out to any kind of troubles in a relationship.
1.) sit down with him, explain him everything - ask him to explain everything. (smartest way)
2.) give yourself and him a break(but do tell him that you should have sometime to sort things out) and see where it goes.
but whatever you do, put yourself in his shoes and then analyze things and then do them
2006-10-01 05:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you know what...? You're not alone. :) Cheers. I'm like you, still searching for that answer, not sure what went wrong, felt extremely lost.
But you gotta find yourself back, again. For that's who your love one was initially attracted to.
2006-10-01 10:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by ravynmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try eating bake beans
2006-10-01 05:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you'll grow out of it
2006-10-01 05:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient, be confident and you will find happiness
2006-10-01 05:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋