my fiance cheated on me and had sex in the car we have a subaru i love that car to pieces now should i make him change it or should i bite my tong and get in it
it's just all the visions im gonna have
2006-09-30 22:24:57 · 39 answers · asked by flowerpot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My Ex cheated on me but he didn't have sex in the car...he did however use the car to pick this B***h up from work and school all the time!!! Once I found out I never went in the car again...how could I sit in the same seat as that b***h. Maybe I'm crazy but I refused. I totally undrestand you with wanting to change the car but more importantly are you really ready to forgive him for his cheating??
2006-09-30 22:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you really mad about. The car or the sex he had with someone else.
Why aren't you get those visions every time you look at him.
Trade your fiance in for a new model and keep the car. Have the car detailed and maybe add some extras inside that you would like. Maybe a new love and you two can break in the Subaru the correct way.
2006-09-30 22:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fiance cheat on you in a car that you love
you love the car to pieces what about the fance do you love him
if you don't love him and you are in this relationship for other reason than you should bite your tong
if you love him than wag your tong because if you made him change the car than next he will just go to a motel
wht you need to do is to make sure it does not happen again
in the car oranywhere else
as for changing that car if he can affort it why not
By the way you guys should go to theraphy before the wedding
2006-09-30 23:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The car is immaterial. What is meaningful is that you are engaged STILL to a person who has so little regard or respect for you that they cheated. I hope you can get past the idea that the car was used as a bedroom, because if you marry a cheater- they will cheat on you again and again. Unless you can afford to replace cars, homes, couches, computers, and phones all the time, you need to accept that everything will be used as tools to bang others. Good luck- you'll need it. And a very strong stomach.
2006-09-30 23:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious with such a question??? Shouldn't you be asking yourself whether you should be changing the man not the car????
And I would tell you to change the man! How can you have a loving, trusting and open relationship with someone who has already cheated on you, and at a time when it's supposed to be one of the most romantic times of your relationship!! Imagine what he'll be like after ten years of marriage (if you even make it that far!)?
Forget him! Find someone who believes in the sanctity of marriage and who respects and values you too much to do any such awful thing to you.
2006-10-01 01:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Quilps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you thinking of dumping the car when in reality you should be dumping your fiance. How can you be sure that when you get married that he will change and not cheat on you again? I think you have to think this through carefully. The car is not the issue here, you relationship is.
2006-09-30 22:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the car, if you are going to forgive him and move on from this, then you need to get rid of the car, otherwise everytime you go in it its going to be a reminder, to you, as well as to him, especially if he does feel guilty over what he did, not that he deserves any consideration, but for both you sakes, get shot of it, and yeah make him foot the bill, its the least he can do.
2006-09-30 22:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmm id think that would be the least of ur worries.. if ur worried about what "visions" ur going to have of the car, then u must be wearing a blindfold when dealing with ur fiance since the car is just where it happened and he's the one that actually actted it out.. get a clue, and dont marry him..before u bring kids into your idiotic world of cluelessness
2006-09-30 22:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have forgiven him and think you can make a go of it then change the car or else it will just be a painful reminder!!! If not trade them both in for better models honey - you're worth it!!
2006-09-30 22:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by Andielep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Flower
I know what i would do, KEEP THE CAR THAT YOU LOVE, get it well cleaned inside and out,even get a knew seat for it, AS for your FIANCE dump him Flower and you enjoy that car girl,
2006-09-30 22:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋