this guy who likes me, i'll call him Dave (name changed big time), was my crush a couple years ago. i mean it i was totally head over heels for this guy i loved him so much i would practically do anything for him! then i got over him cuz he didn't like me.... now he likes me he sent me this email and i am completely over him and i don't know how to act around him and i don't know what to say i caught him following me and looking at me and it's actually pretty creepy! help what should i do? just be passive? help.
2006-09-30 21:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ah, a had a friend who had to go through this. here's what I said:
"Wait it out like you had to do for him."
Hey, wasn't it you who wanted him to like you then? Sure, it happens to be a twist of unfortunate timing, but there was all that stuff you were obsessed with back then.
Plus, this option would also make it best with him -- no feelings would really have to change except for his liking for you diminish for you as time goes along.
Hope this helps!!! :DDD
2006-09-30 22:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! For pete's sake, don't be passive. Just tell him the truth that you're not interested in him. If you're passive, he'll think you still like him and try to have a relationship with him.
Who knows, he may turn out to be a complete ****** and just "use you" because you had the hots for him at one time. Tell him the truth.
2006-10-01 04:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 options - be honest - say i did like you bu ti have moved on and only see you as a friend - its just bad timing
2) cut him out of your life and move on properly - if he is creepy you dont need him as a friend even
2006-10-01 04:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no definitely don be passive n make it clear to him tat u don like him n ur ova him n all........n if truly ur totally totally ova him then definitely tell him...
cos oderwise he'll think u do like him n all tat...u don wanna give him wrong ideas n all so definitely make it clear to him.......
2006-10-01 05:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by ...NiKkI... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRO, will get the message across
go away sucker, you missed the boat
2006-10-01 05:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the nuts
2006-10-01 05:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him the truth.
2006-10-01 05:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by lupino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋