When you are down and no one is giving you any support I wonder what the meaning of my life is.
No loving boyfriend, my relationship with my boyfriend that has alienated me from my family, friends that have become fed up with my boyfriend hitting me, lying and cheating and have given up on me.
What should I do to give my life some meaning?
Please help me.
2006-09-30 21:17:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The reason why you don't know the meaning of life is because your boyfriend has killed it for you!
First thing you should do is leave your so called boyfriend! You need to reconnect with your soul, and rebuild your self-worth!
Once you are happy with YOU and surround yourself with people who do love you will you find the meaning of life!
2006-09-30 21:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you can survive without him. You need to let go of the abuse as difficult as it is, there is help for abused people. Second you need to get your relationship with family and friends back on track as hard as that is, it is something you need to do. Go out and do something that you love or want to experience take a friend with you to help you through the door. Also inform your local GP you may need help in the begin. and to answer your question about the meaning of life the only clue I could give you is live YOUR life to the fullest you will make a difference in many peoples lives even if you don't know it. you touch many hearts in your life's journey and vice-a-verse If you choose not to leave your boyfriend still see your GP join a club and get your family and friends back (the true ones will wait for you) and talk to him if you can't write a letter and leave it where he can find it. (personal experience it may work for you too i didn't think my partner loved me and he emotionally abused me i lost my friends and family i wrote a letter from the heart (in the form of poetry) saying what else could i give up before it's enough he cried when he read it now we are married with 2 kids and one on the way we have also been married for five and a half years( He still needs a wake up call every now and then but we love each other and will work through it))
2006-10-01 06:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by nomespurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone knew the meaning of life, it would be so easy to live! Get involved with some community events. What do you believe in? First of all, you really need to get some help and get away from that "boyfriend" of yours. If he's physically absuing, he's obviously mentally abusing you...it's setting in already. Support yourself. Do you have a religious background or belief system? Above all, get professional help about the abuse.
2006-10-01 04:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by SuiteNezi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reconcile your family and an apologies given look deep in your heart and look up the meaning of love trust and faithfulness a;always remember that life had many things and always can be full of adventures the violence you are suffering from you barbaric heartless B/F is not the way it is you are the only one that can make the necessary changes your friend will understand your betrayal of loyalty but true friends will come to your rescue only if you allow them too love yourself you are a child of GOD may he bless you don't scourge yourself move on please
2006-10-01 04:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus saves. Seek Him. Seek Him even until you find Him. If you want help with that, IM me at guitarmant2000 on yahoo messenger. Don't forget the t before the 2000. Or email me at guitarmant2000@yahoo.com
He is waiting for you...
2006-10-01 04:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help with a support group. If he is hitting you have to leave him it will only get worse. THERE IS NO NEED FOR HITTING YOU! NO EXCUSES! You only get one chance at life dont waste it!
2006-10-01 04:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Darren G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be selfish. Take care of yourself. Don't get cheated. Start enjoying life.
2006-10-01 04:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by chimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing leave that scumbag of a boyfriend.
2006-10-01 05:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from it. Men who beat women up are not true Men.
Walk Away From It.
2006-10-01 04:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by axel_jose187 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here's a hint: no-one respects a woman who stays with or goes back to a hitter.
2006-10-01 04:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋