Out of wedlock we have a child. The dad doesnt seem to really want me untill he comes over and just wants sex. I care for him alot and give in, although its because we have a child not because we are together. He never says he loves me or anything and admits we are not together to friends. How do I tell him that Im not his sex toy just because we have a child together?
2006-09-30 19:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to make youself happy before you can make someone else happy. You can tell him your not his sex toy by simply not having sex next time he feels like it, tell him you have plans...or going on a date, I think he has the image that if he don't get lucky with someone else that night, he can always fall back on you. break him of that habbit.
2006-09-30 19:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Koolaid1730 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "how do you break up with someone"? According to him, y'all aren't together anyway! And you say in your statement that "you care for him a lot because you have a child, not because you're together." If you're not good enough to be his lady AND baby momma, then you're not good enough to be his baby momma and sex toy! I know it will be hard because you care for him and obviously you're still attracted to him, but you need to cut off the sexual relationship with him and just have a parenting relationship that will benefit your child. Or else the vicious cycle will go on for years!!!
2006-10-01 03:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start loving yourself first, then all will fall in place. Practis detachment and dont be overly attached to things that you're not keen in. Listen to your heart. it will guide you and dont do sumthing just for making others happy (in a wrong manner). Make sure U know what you're doing. the only person you are cheating now is YOUR OWNSELF and no one else. have the courage and be yourself.
2006-10-01 03:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anisha81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just me strong and sit him down and talk to him. you should tell him that he should help you with your child that you have togther and you dont need him from sex. because if you dont he will keep using you for sex till you put your foot down and tell him you dont need him for that. you will feel way better about yourself trust me. you dont need that no women does so just be strong.
2006-10-01 02:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lecture him. Tell him he can take the child if he wants. dont be a doormat.
2006-10-01 02:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by ashma_nisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex with him and make him watch sleepless in seatle with you.
2006-10-01 02:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by enrique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those exact words would work! Tell him will find a different phuck buddy.........
2006-10-01 02:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BYE-BYE!
2006-10-01 09:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by jinx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋