a girl ask (over text messaging...no clue why we could not do this over the phone.) "Do you like like me?"
I said yes
the next text I get says "so...any way"
so I am thinking, so she must want to change the subject...right
nope, when i try to do that she says "do not change the subject"
then right after that I get this one that says "what are we going to do about us"
at this point I am going ??? so I say "we are going to do what you want to do"
then she says "what if i do not know what I want?"
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So am I doing something wrong here?
How should I handle all of this?
2006-09-30 19:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
call her and ask her out!
2006-09-30 19:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt~ask her if she wants to go out or not, if that's what you want. Either way, be honest & don't play games. Take things SLOW, and hopefully she'll figure out what she wants in the meantime. Watch the texting, she could be having fun at your expense & showing your texts to her friends etc... Use the phone more, you can tell a lil bit more about what she's thinking by the tone of her voice etc...
2006-10-01 03:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be asking the girl what kind of game she is playing as it is clear you don't really know what she wants. Have you asked her who she is, and what she expects from you. It sounds like she is only trying to screw around with your head and it sounds like she is doing a very good job of it. If you get this message again from her just ignore her as your playing straight into her hands if you answer it.
2006-10-01 03:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she wants to do if she says i do not know then give her examples.
when she is talking do not interup her let her talk to you a do not change the subject let her change it. and if she is talking crap then look at her and do nothing and petend that you r listining
2006-10-01 02:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by zach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is her immature way of trying to play hard to get just ask her straight up if the two of you are going to be together or not that you can move on one way or another
2006-10-01 02:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is playing a game with you she wants to see if you will act like a man and take charge.
2006-10-01 02:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go out sometime to get to know each other better.
2006-10-01 02:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her boss you around or she will loose attraction for you .
2006-10-01 02:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she is really serious..cuz she might be joking u around..and ask her the meaning of her querries to you..and what she want you to do to her..
2006-10-01 02:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by ..bERmzZz.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to say that you want to be together be a couple
2006-10-01 02:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by the_trix_rab_bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋