Ok so I like girls (I think).I was sure 4 about 2 yrs, but my best frind doubts me. She thinks I'm a lesbian because I'm afraid of rejection(which I am), but I try to explain to her that girls can reject me as well. She knows my insecurities, so I'm afraid she mite be rite. I go to an all-girls skool, so my mom blames herself. She said that it wouldnt be ok to date girls when I'm 16 ,but its ok for me to date guys-WTF?! I told her I was "bi", but that might of been a lie. I mean I like girls, I'm attracted to them, I would like to be close w/ them and have that intimate relationship. So, I dont get it. Is all of that fake? So am I confusing close friendships for "lesbianism". But I want more than just frienships from girls! Although I've never actually been with the girl cuz I'm still in the closet a bit even w/ my closest frindz. I think I'm sure about girls, but not so sure about guys. I would rather be with girls all the time, but there was this guy that I couldnt stop crushing on!
2006-09-30 18:53:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do you need to have a neat little label to wear?
You're young, you seem to like guys and girls and that is cool. You'll have plenty of loves and heartbreaks in life regardless what label you pick.
Date who you wish, be honest and demand honesty, but don't sweat about what to call it.
2006-10-01 03:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 11⤊ 3⤋
It sounds like you have a pretty good relationship with your mom, being able to tell her how you feel. I think she would be supportive if you asked her to let you see a therapist, so that you can talk about your feelings and get an objective opinion about your confusions. I strongly recommend you do this to get answers, to be able to make up your own mind without pressure from parents and friends. Good luck to you.
2006-10-01 02:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋