A boyfriend of 10 years, that I finally left because it was'nt getting any better and it was a continious reacurring problem.
2006-09-30 18:47:20 · 10 answers · asked by Sexy Wahine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im sorry to say but if someone doesnt want to help then there isnt no way that you will help... i know this because it happend to me... if he doesnt want help then dont waste your time, i know you really care about him but if he doesnt want help you will just be wastin your time! Sorry for being out there but, its the truth, now if he wants help, then you guys should go get professional help.... good luck and the best of luck to you and yours!
2006-09-30 18:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ LEILANI ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meth will destroy everything and anything in it's path. Your bf is it's host. The chemicals used to make it are becoming more abrasive and less time is taken to make sure the quantities of the ingredients are concise making the outcome of the effect of the drug highly unstable which creates a high inbalance and will make the person crazy in their own mind. My daughter is going through it with her roomate as we speak. Her roommate was high and thought there were federal agents watching her. She told my daughter she saw them in the woods. She said they had guns. She pointed to where they were and told my daughter to look to see if she could see them. Surprise, no one was there.
Another woman I know got shot by her bf in the arm because he thought she was a undercover police or she might be wired to get him. Surprise, they had gone together for 7 years. She was going out to her car to get her purse and he thought she might have a gun in it.
My little buddy Frankie decided he would give meth a try and then decided there was money to be made. He thought that this person he was doing business with sold him out after owing $14,000 dollars and figured the guy didn't want to pay so he shot the guy in the face 11 times. When I talked to him, when he was off it for awhile (jail) he said it felt like it wasn't even him that did it, it felt like he was someone else. Surprise, he's doing life in prison.
My advice would be, don't wait until it's too late. The bottom is very dark where your bf is going and only he can find the way out. He's an addict. Only he can put his addiction in it's cage. He has to face it first. Don't let yourself get hurt in the process of his way down to the bottom.
2006-09-30 20:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be impossible to get him off "Meth". He will have to seek help and go into Detox. :Meth" is addictive instantely. The high only last no more than five minutes and he will pay another $20.00 or so for another. In essence he will spend his check wherever he gets the Meth. My daughter went through this for a few years. He is still on it and goes from job to job and at the end of the work day he owes his check.
He had a sister that he had not seen in years that flew down from the west coast to visit her parents. About the second day she was there David, her brother went into the bedroom and held a knife to her throat and told her to get out of bed and carry him to a place he knew that would get him his Meth.. On the way she noticed a Sheriff's car at this seven-eleven, and fearing for her life she wheeled in and crashed into the sheriff's car. They came running out with guns drawn and ran him down.
He has been in so many rehaps, and cost his family many thousands of dollars for his treatment. They cannot hold you unless the court says so. He would walk out and the sceniero would start over.
H was a professional boxer. He had fought in a major event at Madison Square garden before the main event with Mike Tyson, and another boxer. To relate how boxing works in the professional field. It was arranged by phone call to this gym in Birmingham that they needed a boxer that was very good but they did not want him to go over four rounds. They had a guy that was on his way up in the "middle class", and they did not want anyone that could beat their opponent. David did make the New Yourk times the next morning. I talked with him when he got back and he said he was not going to throw the fight. Like I said he did go four rounds with this upcoming boxer. David said when he took a deep breath and let it out ,he got caught below the ribs. (liver) He tried to hold own but he said he could not take a breath for over two minutes. He wanted to kill this guy, and they were surprised it went four rounds.
2006-09-30 19:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am struggling with the same thing. Pray for him. Don't listen to all the jerks that say he is a loser and you should run away from him. People are powerless over their addictions and until they realize this you can't help nor control them. Just set boundaries don't let him cause anymore pain in your life. But tell him when he is ready to make an honest effort at recovery you will be there by his side to support him. Good luck if you want to talk e-mail me.
2006-09-30 19:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not get him off drugs. He has to make that choice. But what you can do is start living for you. Build a future. You can only work on you. The only control that you unfortunatly have over the situation is to decide if you want him in your life with the drugs or not. Hopefully not. Nothing you say or do will make him quit. You need to ask yourself....would you want someone you love to settle for that? and why would you expect less for yourself?
2006-09-30 18:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him off of the meth, he has to truly want it for himself and then it will still be very hard. This drug is extremely addicting and no matter how much he thrives to do w/out it it will always be an issue, so they say. Good luck & don't give up on him too soon!!!!
2006-09-30 18:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Purity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was breifly studying meth in school. What I learned was that once you try meth you become addicted almost automaticly and perminitly. I would think that the best thing to do would be to contact a doctor who specializes in this and to love and support your boyfriend during this tough situation.
2006-09-30 18:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by dratsum_blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't honey, he has to. The only thing you can do is take care of yourself, and not enable him. Don't go back!!!
2006-09-30 18:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by ladyspice1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do, he has to want to help himself, that's the only way it'll work.
2006-09-30 18:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intervention and rehab
2006-09-30 18:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lord_of_Armenia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋