ladies answer this please?

Question

ok i am a freshmen in high school (14years old) and i dont have my period yet and my mom get it when she was 14----what should i do-----what if i get it at school?? oh and what should i do about my breasts one is normal and one is flat i dont want to see a doctor, too young for surgery, no bras work (ive tried ALL of them). please help me ladies.

Answer 1

Carry a pad in your purse or backpack so your ready when you start. As far as your breasts, give it time. You still have at least four years before your body is finished developing. Just try to be patient and maybe get a padded bra and stuff the one side under your breast so no one can tell.

Answer 2

Are you very athletic? If you are, and perhaps a bit underweight, this can delay menstruation. To be prepared, buy a package of sanitary pads and practice wearing them from time to time. They are not noticable at all even in tight jeans and most now come in individually wrapped packets that you can carry in your purse or backpack in case it starts at school, It will feel a little like you wet yourself - warm fluid down there. Before it starts you will almost certainly have a little mild cramping, as if you have to go to the bathroom - and then you will see a little blood on the toilet tissue after you pee. Be prepared - don't wear white if your'e feeling crampy at all,

Now for your chest - every woman has one breast larger than the other, just as we all have one foot a bit bigger and one leg a bit longer. If it is really noticeable, you SHOULD see a doctor. Surgery is not a good idea - it will interfere with breastfeeding when you become a mother! But a difference of a centimeter or two is not cause for concern. In my case, my left breast is quit a bit bigge than my right - and I have 1-1/2 shoe sizes difference between my right and left foot, and my left leg is about an inch longer than my right. NO ONE is symetrical!

If your period hasn't started by the time you are 15, you must see a doctor. But on the bright side - the later you are in starting your period, the sooner it will end (which makes no sense, but it's true). Girls who start at 10 or 11 often keep menstruating into their 50's, wheras those of us who start later, end in our forties. Who wants to be using pads in thier fifties, anyway!

Remember, there is no such thing as "normal" for staring your menses or for breast sizes either. Every one of us is different. Hang in ther - once your period starts, you'll wonder why you wanted it to!

Cheers.

Answer 3

that 1's tough i'd say talk 2 ur mom about the boobs and about you'r period carry some pads just in case and since ur 14 if people see then so what they'll think u already started ok i'm trying 2 think about the boobs i know this sounds wrong but slowly put toilet paper in ur bra so it'll seem like it's slowly growing and get fitted 4 a bra they can specially make u 1 at some places

good luck and god bless

much luv JenA

Answer 4

ok 14 is a little old for not getting your period and yes it can be very imbarassing getting it during school because u dont know what to expect in order to know when its coming just be prepared because u dont know what your doing i would suggest carrying a pad with u at all times just in case and pay attention to your body so when it does come your ready. bras well u can purchase those cleavage maker things (fake implants) instead of putting both in try just using one on the flat side. (i believe u can even purchase these at walmart at the check out)

Answer 5

Welcome to the world of becoming a woma...

Dont rush your body... you are lucky that you have not got Ant Flo as of yet b/c cramps are no joke I'm telling and you get all kinds of cravings mine is ice cream, pizza.... I got my mine at a early age in the 4th grade and was not happy about that.. In high scholl all my friends didnt have it ant they did nt have breasts.





If you get it in school go to the nurse right away she has something for you trust me... I have been there already... Do a lot of reading that will help as well. But jsut carry a pad in your purse when you go to school and it wont come down with out you feeling it first...

First comes the cramps, face break out, stomach is bloated, there are many signs and they vary as well..... You will
be fine


Your boobs are fine the other one should grow in any day now that happens to every one. It happened to me and I know how you feel. But there is really nothing that you can do about except wear big shirts until the other one grows in

Answer 6

I'm 14 to. Don't worry, we all go through this some point in our teenager years. One breast is always going to be significantly bigger than the other one when you are going through puberty. As far as periods go, count your blessings that you don't have one yet. They are a pain in the ***! They are painful, and make you feel all depressed. Always carry some pads with you in your backpack just in case it does start at school. Everything will work out for you, it justs takes time. You'll be alright. Everyone goes through it.

Answer 7

dont worry about your period. every woman is differnt . my mom had to get hers medically assisted! (birth contorl pills) to get hers started, she didnt get her first period till she was 20! lol I got mine when i was 13 ish going on 14. Odnt worry abotu your breasts. all women are unevern believe it or not. if it is really uneven, liek you can tell when you waer shirts then maybe you should make a doctors appointment. but you are still young anf they will even out. one of my breasts is bigger than the other, all womens are, some can be more noticeable then others. so that isnt something to worry about. dont be so self concious about it! =) As for you gettign you period at school , just take one of your mom's pads and carry it around in your purse of backpack, or keep it in your school/p.e. locker just incase or just a panty liner. but i wold choose a pad just incase its really bad! dont worry about it though.
if you are really concerned about the uneveness of your breats then as your mom for something called a breast petal which is just a small oblong pad to give you clevage. and stick that in your bra where you dont fill it out all the way, maybe that will help.

your breasts also dont stop growing until you mid 20's. im 19 and mine are still al ittle uneven lol its normal though =)

Answer 8

1. I didn't get a period until I was almost 17... my mom got hers when she was 13... every woman is different. Calm down.

2. No woman's breasts are the same size... well, unless they're fake. In some women it's just more noticable than in others (some can hardly tell)

Answer 9

hey. im the same age and grade as you and i know how stressful and scary it is to anticipate your period. i got it last year and like other women have said, be glad you dont have it yet. carry a pad or something in your backpack. [pantyliners are great for your first time.] and as for your boobs, chillax. pretty soon they'll both be normal so for now, just try wearing a bra that would support your "flat" one if it was "normal". i hope this works for you. and cantact me if you want to talk ok? :]

Answer 10

Its really actually a normal thing. Just be sure to carry pads around with you, since you never know when its gonna happen. And dont foget an extra pair of clothes.