he is too imbareassed to see a doctor about it but were not sure what we should do. any suggestions?
2006-09-30 17:58:33 · 19 answers · asked by cherokeeindian 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You must be very sexy to him, and he should not be embarrassed. But so hopefully this does not bother either of you, or effect YOU, have him put ora-gel D on the tip of his penis, then wear a rubber.......trust me...have fun.
2006-09-30 18:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by For sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be two reeasons. The first is insufficient foreplay and high expectations. This can be rectified i.e. more foreplay and also recognition that men tend to come on faster than women. The second is a meddical or medically induced situation i.e diabetics are more prone. This need medical intervention which only a doctor can provide e.g. aids like viagra can have repurcussions which only his doctor can provide. Also play your part by being a lot more understanding - love overcomes all problems!!!
2006-10-01 01:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sucks try having sex really quick and then doing it again as soon as he is ready to do it again, usually the guy can go a lot longer... i know this is gonna sound stupid but actually if you read the sex section of cosmopolitan it helps with a lot of your embarassing questions about sex, you should tell your husband that the doctors dont care what his problem are they are there to help... I dont care and im in school studing to be a nurse or PA and my boyfriend is in school to be a doctor. they dont judge. so go when you have a ? k? Good Luck!!!
cheyenne
2006-10-01 02:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Chyhanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good for a quicky..
but maybe just ask him to masterbate before hand, he'll take longer to arouse, but that gives more time for you, when hes ready again, will be better for you then to, your more turned on, as you two go at it, you may actually reach an orgasm before he does, because hes already ejaculated...
but work with it, experiment
2006-10-01 01:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Adam D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical guy issue. Women take a bit longer, but guys usually like the foreplay that get's "them" going.
2006-10-01 01:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by intrigue899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using a condom. Sometimes having that barrier there doesn't ruin the pleasure, but it makes them hold on just a little bit longer.
2006-10-01 02:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by bf had the same problem.. he then went to walgreens and got this clear gel.. called mandelay( sounds like man delay) its a numbing gel that you put on the hed of the penis.. my bf is uncut so if your husband is too tell him to pull the skin down fist...gl
2006-10-01 01:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by brieana_lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading the appropriate section in the Joy of Sex. They've got exercises you can do together. Have fun!
2006-10-01 01:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Julia S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be imbareassed also but there comes a time when you just talk to a new dr and take care of the prob before you lose the one best friend you have
2006-10-01 01:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by hard headed diabectic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his second or third ejaculation will come a bit slower. He wont be like this for ever.
2006-10-01 02:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Theodore G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋