Would you still marry your spouse? Why/why not?
2006-09-30 17:51:46 · 20 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its a toss up... I hate some of the things she does, but I probably wouldn't be where i am now without her in my life. Besides I have 2 awesome kids with whom I couldn't live with out.
2006-09-30 18:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!!!!!
I knew that my marriage probably would not last but i tried to make it work and now i am about to leave after treathening too 2 times before. He will never change being wrapped up in himself and i can not make him change. Told him 2 days ago that it is not normal for a person to not talk for one whole day to the one that you are suppose to love. I gave him a dose of his own medicine and he does not like it. He has killed what ever i had for him sometime ago but i had 2 children when we married and he and my daughter are great together. She has just moved away from home (2 months) and it has been getting worse everyday. I have discorved i do not want to grow old with this person. Better than that i do not want my son to think that this is how a man treats the one that he is married too...
2006-09-30 18:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure, we have had a lot of major drama from his part, and i regret all the abuse my family has had to go through and i would love to say that i probable would not have married him if i knew then what i know now, but on the flip side, there were good times as well and also, i have a beautiful blue eyed little girl that i would not have had if i wasnt with him, so maybe i could answer by saying that yes, i would marry him again, but i would make better choices knowing what the outcome and drama would be to prevent abusing my family...................
2006-09-30 21:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. He's my best friend.
He quit school, didn't have a job or a car and everyone said it wouldn't last because he was 19 and I was 17 and pregnant. Now he has a great job that makes it so that I can stay home with my 3 kids and I know from his dedication through the years that he would die for all of us.
Not to say that we haven't had our problems through the years, but they either kill you or make you stronger. We chose to let them strengthen us.
2006-09-30 17:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jen B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew how my husband was before i met him and still married him. I did it because there was something about that i loved so much and i realized that if you take in the good you gotta take the bad baggage too. no one is perfect and marriage is not sopose to be dandy all the time.
2006-09-30 18:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say no,the pain and humiliation of being cheated on hurt too much, marriage isn't always perfect, and it's something both parties have to work on. by the time i knew he was unhappy he had alreadt decided to cheat, and leave me for the other woman, when i suggested counciling he laughed in my face.no i wouldn't marry this man again.
2006-10-01 03:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really good question cuz if i would of known my husband would have asked me to choose between him and taking care of my sick grandparents not once but twice i would have never married him the way i see it he should have supported me as tho my own family was giving me grief and would not even lend me a hand to watch over them which made my situation worse ahhhh there is your answer i wouldnt have! it showed just how much he didnt care of love me enough to give a damn!
2006-09-30 17:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by nascar_fans01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. My husband has ended up being a better man than I could have ever imagined. * I am not surprised though :-) I would have married him sooner if I knew then what I know now!
2006-09-30 17:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter was 'best man' for her dad's wedding today. Yes I sure would. I will tell you what I told her, without that marriage I wouldn't have her and she is one of the biggest blessings in my life.
2006-09-30 17:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough question..on one hand I would say no, because he was very abusive and controlling...on the other hand I would say yes, because without him I wouldn't have the beautiful children that I have.
2006-09-30 18:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by katydid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋