My brother (who's 19) is leaving is in the army, and going to Iraq Monday. Now, I really love my brother, but, i'm his "pesty little sister" and he doesn't want anything to do with me, I really just want to tell him good-bye before he leaves. Any suggestions?
2006-09-30 17:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by somdumblond 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him how much you love him and altho he may see you as just his pesty little sister, you really look up to him and you think its good that he wants to go to serve for his country!!!
2006-09-30 17:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by nobodyinparticular...lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an older brother that still looks at me like a child,and probably always will.He never made any efforts to me until I had my first daughter when I was 21.She was born with pneumonia,and flown to a different state and put into nicu.We didnt know if she was going to live or not,and all the sudden the nurse said my brother was there.He drove 7 hours with his wife to be there for me.My point is that when things get rough,your brother will be there even if hes the last one you expect.Always tell him you love him,and let him know that you realize how serious this leave is and tell him you want some precious time with him and let him know no matter how hard it is,you love him and let him know its hard for you to see him go.Make this a heartfelt moment so he knows your serious and you really do love him, he will always remember that and so will you.god bless him for what hes doing,and I will pray for his safety
2006-09-30 17:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by luv2bawifenmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i did when i was your age is i would write a letter and give it to him asap before they leave this way they have to respond to everything that you said in the letter and he might even kiss ur forehead or give ya a hug after he reads that letter.
It doesn't have to be a long letter it could be a few sentences like...
example:
i love you. and i never say it much but i have to before you go cause i don't know when is the next time i will see you. Be safe and here is a pic of me.
PS most of my sisters, father, brothers, cousins, have served in the Army, Navy, Marines.
2006-09-30 19:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up and hug him and tell him bye. No matter how you think he feels about you, let him know you love him and will miss him. Besides what 19 year old haven't tried to ditch their younger sister or brother?
2006-09-30 17:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to talk to him, tell him you'll miss him and love him. I wouldnt let my brother leave the country without some words of encouragement.
2006-09-30 17:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and tell him you love him and you don't want him to get hurt and ask him if it is ok for you to write to him while he is over there believe it or not he is scared of what he is about to do so just tell him
2006-09-30 17:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by krazy4_coke2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened wtih me only, it was only college he was going to. Talk to him before he leaves. Let him know that you love him. After all, you could not see him for a while..
2006-09-30 17:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you tell him. He is going to a very dangerous place.
2006-09-30 17:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a card,then give it to him,then let him decide the next move.You did all you could.
2006-09-30 17:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him NOW, right before he leaves you need to hug him like there is no 2morrow
2006-09-30 17:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Dance chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋