my guy friend uses me...i think! how do i tell...what are the signs?
and i don't want to say' r u using me'
i just wanna know the signs so i know if he were still to be my friend
2006-09-30 17:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dnt follow every command
tell politely u have to do thing as per ur wishes
2006-09-30 17:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he See's you ..dose he always want something?Do you ever get together and he pays his own way?Dose he want you to do any work for him?Is he always broke?Dose he borrow,and never brings thing's back?Dose he owe you money?Dose he go out with other people and could have asked you and didn't?These are all sure signs.
2006-09-30 17:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they seem to only care about themselves and not take into account your feelings. Maybe if he only ever wants to do what he wants to do and nothing you want to do. Just back up and start doing things for yourself you'll soon see if he is really using you.
2006-09-30 17:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you will know...but friends are suppose to have your back...so test him ask him for something, and you will see if , he says, no, no, no, most of the time, then he is a taker, not a giver...then drop his friendship
2006-09-30 17:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's only there when he needs something from you, but is never there when you need his help; then that's a sure sign.
2006-09-30 17:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ Jemmy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,they will say'' you are a true pro and hope you would help me next time,u are nice person'' '' always use the phone call to talking to you and they will look down themself pretend to be poor situation'' ''your carrot cake was so good ,i hope u will do it next week'' ''petend like very busy all the time and u will go and get it by your self for his/her'' '' they will keep contact with you look like they are the one of family''
2006-09-30 18:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by H.O.P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he is taking you to bed and your feeling used. THEn you probably are. DONT let him no more. THERE are men who will treat you right. GOOD luck
2006-09-30 17:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple, if they show up on time, keep their word and have your back, its your hommie. if they leave you hanging, break their word, or sell you out for women then cut that friend loose
2006-09-30 17:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by jsplat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel empty and unsatisfied after you try to be loved by him.
2006-09-30 17:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋