He has visitation in the divorce decree that states he gets even holidays and me odd and he get every other weekend for visititation. They have always picked up the kids on fri and i pick them up from them on sun. do i have to do this, or if he wants to see them does he have to drive both ways?
2006-09-30 17:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by humorme! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes he needs to pick them up and bring them home...
2006-09-30 17:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me what you are doing is fair for both of you. He picks them up and you go and get them. Do not pick a fight over this cause it is petty. Use the drive home to find out what they did and how the weekend went.
2006-10-01 00:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the divorce decree says, but if you have been doing this for a while, why rock the boat. Always do what is best for your children, regardless of what the papers say.
2006-10-01 02:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say...if you want them back...then you'd better go get them...that is the justification by the courts usually. It's a good concept and it saves him on gas and riled nerves for doing all the driving. It's possible to do it the latter way that youre suggesting, but not fair.
2006-10-01 00:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this agreement is in writing then you have to follow or you will be in violation of the order.
2006-10-01 00:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY IF IT OK WITH HIM. I HAVE THE SAME THING AND YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT THE PAPERS SAY, UNLESS YOU OTHER WISE AGREE AND I SUGGEST IF HE AGREES TO MAKE SURE YOU BOTH SIGN A PAPER STATING THAT.
2006-10-01 03:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever the papers say if you disagree go back to court and get it changed
2006-10-01 00:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋