well my b-f was going to walk with me but he hooked up with his friend and did a drug deal and he said can you wait here while he went in the bathroom with his friends and got hi and he came out and i said r u going to walk with me and his friend said forget that b**** and then i left but i dont want to break up with him i want to help him and take care of him when he is down wut should i do?
2006-09-30 17:36:55 · 14 answers · asked by kaylee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He needs help and you need to get out of this situation before you get caught up in it............
2006-09-30 17:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a little messed up if you ask me. I wouldn't waste my time with a loser that gets high in the bathroom!!!! There are plenty of fine, single, smart guys out there. You can't change anyone!!! You can't turn somebody into something their not and also you can't help someone that doesn't want help. If I were him I would ditch him!!!!
2006-09-30 17:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this .. but you can not save your boyfriend.. he has to learn the hard way .. and it won't be pretty. I know it may be difficult .. but move on to a new guy for your own sake.. When you look back on this, a few years from now .. you will be so thankful that you moved on ! Good Luck! :)
2006-09-30 17:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. You are enabling him to continue to abuse drugs. He has to want to stop by himself. You may think that you are helping him, but you are making it too easy for him. He will have to hit rock bottom before he understands what he is doing to himself. Get out now.
2006-09-30 17:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a rehab center or talk to his parents and try to get him some help. But sounds like to me you gotta drop him while your still alive
2006-09-30 17:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by spacejammer230 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate with him better, if you talk things thru with him you will always feel better about the problem you feel you are having and you will both feel like you are on the same page as each other, i think he should at least asked you if you wanted to join them and it kinda sounds like his friend is an ***, but you should talk to him about what you are feeling
2006-09-30 17:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by ...here in my garden of magic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Once a crackhead always a crackhead.
2006-09-30 17:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Babyface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get high next time.
2006-09-30 17:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hah hah
2006-09-30 17:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant save him.thats a stupid notion. guilty by association.dont ruien your life trying to fix his druggie ***.
2006-09-30 17:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋