Well I'm pregnant and we broke up right before I find out. He comes and gos like he can't figure out what he wants or because I love him and am stupid enough to keep taking him back when he is alone. I had chosen a name but he seems to want to name the baby after him if its a boy and he also wants it to have his last name. Should I give in and let him name the baby after him and then give the baby his last name or should I go with a name I like and say to hell with him and what he wants. What I want doesn't seem to matter and for someone who acts like he doesn't care he has alot of opinions on what I should be doing and things like that.
2006-09-30 17:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by lil sis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't name the baby after him if he's going to walk out on the poor kid. Do you want your son to have a constant reminder every time he hears his own name that his dad didn't want him? It should be an honor to have your child named after you, and this guy doesn't sound like he deserves it.
2006-09-30 17:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl name the baby what you want since he is in and out. Whatever name you decided to give your baby still give the baby the father's last name. A child should know who their parent is and plus you will need that for child support purposes also.
2006-09-30 17:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no and no. i was in the same situation, although I'm that unborn child you have. my mother went through the same thing and after i was born he was never around, heck I've met him once and im 34. im really glad i was given the name my mother chose for me and that i have my mothers last name.
you have to remember, if you do go this route and later down the road you and this guy get married, you can change all this especially your child's name. do what you think is best for the child. it would be better to do this and see if things do eventually work out than to have a child by his chosen name and last name only for him to leave you after he gets tired of taking care of the responsibilities that come with a child. good luck
2006-09-30 17:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by locowherto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off give him whatever first name you'd like. There is no reason to name him after his father if his father isn't going to be around. Plus then everyday when you call him by that name how would you feel? Last name give him the fathers for support purposes.
2006-09-30 17:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both are having a difficult time with your relationship, it may prove beneficial to name the baby after him for obvious reasons to move forward positively. Other than that, there are no gaurantees. My humble opinion.
2006-09-30 17:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a name that you like, but be sure to put him on the birth certificate for support purposes...otherwise it could get messy & expensive with paternity issues.
2006-09-30 17:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try looking at some names on the babynames website.
2006-09-30 17:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
name the kid u self and give his last name
that way if he ded beat the kid can find and meet him wen older
every kid should know who ther father is
2006-09-30 17:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by fragle2c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it turns out to b a girl name it laina, that is my name and i have always gotten compliments on it...boy name it...ryan or brendon
2006-09-30 17:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by falloutboygirl_13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋