yrs.M e& my partner are settled with a four yr old daughter and a three yr old son .we have seen girlfriends come and go .he has settled down with a girl and has two small children both under 3.They argue alot and he spends alot of time at his own flat away from her.tnite at 10 o` clock she phoned my partner and asked if he could give her a lift. She had taken back a bike she had recently bought her partner for his birthday and needed a lift............i wouldnt call us friends but we have had them over for a drink b4 although we try not to get involved.am i being paranoid or has she over stepped the mark.I wouldnt dream of asking her or her partner for anything and i think she is trying it on with my partner what do u think?i have been with my partner for 8yrs and im not a jealous sort of person and he agreed with me about how strange this was and said i had good reason to be annoyed
2006-09-30 17:05:37 · 8 answers · asked by Geordiegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i wouldnt dream of phoning my partners friend up at ten oclock on a saturday nite asking for a lift regardless of any situation i would find myself in.Family and friends can ask anything but like i said she is neither.......she wont be doing it again.I have never even thought of something like this before with anyone but call it gut instinct
2006-09-30 18:16:39 · update #1
I posted this as i wanted other peoples points of view on it thank you to all those with a brain and 4 the rest of yous hmmmm!Lets see!!!Lord of the jungle what is your problem apart from being offensive and extremely shallow grow up ********
2006-10-01 14:43:13 · update #2
sounds like she needed a lift.. just let it go for now if the behavior persists then do something...
2006-09-30 17:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one....none of this made any sense what so ever.
Two...if you are upset cause someone called for a lift due to returning a bike. WOW....see a dr. fast as you have major security issues to deal with.
Can't wait till you break down some where and need a ride....hate to think what you might think others will think.
2006-10-01 00:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she probably just needed a lift. If you were both uncomfortable with it, I hope you said no. If she continues to call your partner I would advise him to say that he is tied up, but that you would be happy to help her. I bet she'll stop calling if she's just wanting his attention.
2006-10-01 00:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The next time she wants a lift, surprise her, you go and give her a lift! If it was only the lift she wanted, she'll be grateful, if not you'll know!
2006-10-01 03:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not trying it on w/your guy
she's desperate to hook up with his friend, though
and she got that hairbrained idea about the bike
because she wants it to appear
like she's in your "set"
she wants your guy's friend (her semi-bf)
to think of her as one of your gang
she wants all three of you
to subconsciously think of her as being the official gf
of your guy's friend
she knows that she can't move in on you with your guy
(although, she wouldn't mind flirting with him--and...whatever)
but, her real agenda is to entrench herself into your group
'cause she wants to be the gf of your guy's friend
(and, he's kind of cool towards her right now)
if you ever DID need help at some late hour
it's ok to call a male friend who has a gf
just, do most of the talking to the gf
and, ask her to ride along, etc.
2006-10-02 00:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes probably giving you're partner the third degree about her b/f and thats all... its only natural she'd want to find things out about him from your partner as he's the one he works with now and then... dont read too much into it.
2006-10-01 00:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by christine301173 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont just push them away
they may turn into good frends
but if your partner is loyal u have nothin 2 wory about
2006-10-01 00:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by fragle2c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 thoughts .......
1, it seems innocent and you are insecure
2, you are quite psychic and are picking up underlying desires
2006-10-01 00:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋