would it be fair for me or for anyone to dump their bf/gf on their birthday if they have or are using you? im asking this because i feel my boyfriend is only going out with me for sex and since its his birthday next week sunday that i might as well dump him then so does everyone think that fair or not? EITHER WAY IM GOING TO DO IT!
2006-09-30 17:02:32 · 16 answers · asked by xXxLil-D3viLxXx 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The question is what kind of person do you want to be? Do you want to be the type of totally inconsiderate person who would be petty enough to ruin someone's birthday just for cheap thrill? If so go ahead. It says more about your (lack of) character than it does his though.
Break up with him after his birthday. It will show that you have some class.
2006-09-30 17:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it's fair for you to dump him if he's dating you and asking you for sex only. There are plenty of guys out there who may love you and you might not Know. BUT If you wanna to dump him, get rid of him B4 or Right After His B'day. Don't dump him on the actual day of his b'day. At least "give him some face". Jus a suggestion. This depends on how you goin to do it.
In fact, you can oso take this as an experience, in the case that the next time you date wif your BF, make sure that he truly love you and not using you for sex again. All the BEST!
2006-10-01 01:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hey! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say get rid of him but obviously you havent known him long enough to know if he would ever use you or not.. so why did u give it to him?..
Dump him the day before his birthday or right after his birthday. I hate it when people are used like this.. i had kind of a similar situation.
2006-10-01 00:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fair but dump him on the day before his b-day so that he can try to get another girl to fall for his plot on his b-day
2006-10-01 00:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, y would u dump him on his Bday? Every guy goes with a girl eventually to have sex.
2006-10-01 02:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not fair ,what is the necessity for early sex ?.i thing now need .u can share some other things like trip to new place or gifts or surprise grant party like that .................
only sex is not the enjoyable way in the world, so many is there to enjoy
2006-10-02 01:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by hahahaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your going to do it any way then why do you even bother getting on here and asking for advice?
no one cares!
this is a personal problem that so many of you people waste space and time on this site with.
call a friend or something.
this crap is nto needed on here.
2006-10-01 09:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jen L-Baby #1 due Nov 15, 2010 ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie listen up.
If he is only using you, forget him.
There a plenty of guys who would love to just love you instead of use you.
Birthday or not, get rid of him.
2006-10-01 00:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fair, but you probably are getting something out of this relationship, otherwise you would'nt be in it
2006-10-01 00:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by spacejammer230 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No why ruin his B_day dump him before that. Just because hes a jerk doesn't mean you need to be one. be bigger then him
2006-10-01 00:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋