2006-09-30 17:00:28 · 18 answers · asked by Nisha B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him to make up his mind....he cant love you and be interested in another chick. Ask him why he would say such a thing if hes not sure. Be straight forward and honest get down to the raw factor.
2006-09-30 17:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by sltsinsin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! At least he is honest. Thank him for his honesty. Do not commit to a relationship with him though. Platonic freindship is the only way to real true and lasting love. If your relationship doesn't have real friendship than it is doomed. If he is honest enough to admit his dilema to you,than you already have the upper hand than the other girl. He trusts you if he is willing to admit such a thing. Let him explore his decision. If you truely love/like him you will want him to be happy. Respect his decision. Take the high road and move on if he decides for the other girl. If things don't work out with that girl he will remember your graceful behavior and may return for something more than desire. Desire and love are two completely different things. True love only comes from real, honest freindship.
2006-10-01 00:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by mintavia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hopefully I can help you out. I have been in your situation before my ex bf at the time said he still loved me and was in love with another girl. He played with my emotions and this girls. He broke my heart and hers. You do not want to not be involved with this guy because all of the drama. Good luck I know it may be hard to move on. But you can! Find a guy that will treat you like a princess and not stomp on your heart.
2006-10-01 00:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you should do! Forget about him and go find someone who only "loves you" and "not like another girl" at the same time. If he "loves" you and then tell another girl that he likes her, that means that he could be a cheater and that he could not make up his mind in what he really wants. Chasing after him might ended up with you getting hurt....SO DROP HIM!!
2006-10-01 00:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dont Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-10-01 00:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st babygurl hes a BOY!! not a man big difference here.. boys that are young just tell u shot to keep u on their side.. if he really loved u then he wouldnt have issues with another chick.. COME ON NOW WAKE UP!
2006-10-01 00:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he doesnt love you at all, he lusts after 2 girls, It probably isnt worth much time if he is going to be like that, he most likely isnt interested as well, or just interested in one thing.
2006-10-01 00:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by mogler_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find someone that only loves me and doesnt like anyone else on the side. good luck
2006-10-01 00:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he loves you like a sister ... im a guy i would know ive done to sum1 and i got slapped so... i have no clue who he is but hes probally just sayin it like he loves u like a sister
2006-10-01 00:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Maki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you but only lusts after her. If you don't mind sharing his attention, then keep him. Else, dump him.
2006-10-01 00:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋