If i tell him i need him to do something. He lays on the couch til i have a fit or i do it myself. Lately i want him to bring his mouth "downsouth". So now he doesn't even want sleep with me unless its totally his way. I love him to death and we've been together, through a lot and a long time. what's the flipping deal????
2006-09-30 16:58:48 · 30 answers · asked by miss_o41014 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give him anal, that'll do the trick
2006-09-30 16:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by crass consumer 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
listen to your question I LOVE HIM TO DEATH. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER THROUGH ALOT A LONG TIME WHAT IS THE FLIPPING DEAL. you have been putting up with this behavior for along time but now he want go downsouth. if he didn't do before what makes you think he is going start all of the sudden. did he do it and stop. or never took the trip down south
2006-09-30 17:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by the sweetest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, don't take this the wrong way but stop complaining and do something about it.
Don't tell us what is going on.
Go up to him and tell him how you feel.
If he doesn't agree with you in how you feel, then I know plenty of guys who would be willing to go 'downsouth' and actually listen to you.
He sound like a little 12 year old where you have to tell him to do something repeatedly because he won't do it.
If it was up to me, I wouldn't give him anymore chances.
You gave him plenty.
Next time in bed, if he won't go where you want, then why do you have to do what he wants.
2006-09-30 17:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have to just be treated as more intelligent boys, it is lame but...
Just don't let him know that you are doing reverse psychology. It works, trust me.
Manipulation is, sometimes, the only way.
Good luck in the "downsouth" department.
2006-09-30 17:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you should examine with him and kind this out. He has in elementary words defined the actual stuff, and albeit, it sounds like that's a similar fantasy fairly some adult males have. once you're doing large at the same time in the different component then the actual should not be a large deal. Is he bodily each and every thing you dreamed about?
2016-12-04 02:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Ask him in a nice way...don't give orders. Treat him the way you would like to be treated. Show him some consideration and surely he will reciprocate. As for the sex...tell him if he wants a bj he is going to have to go "down south".
2006-09-30 17:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by my two cents 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's fed up of being bossed around. Try asking instead of telling...or even ask him if there is a problem with the way you approach him concerning stuff (and be prepared for an answer you may not like, but deal with it from his point of view, not yours)
2006-09-30 17:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like a Mother and Child relationship.
2006-09-30 17:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't respect you and you can't ORDER someone else to do something. Even after marriage no one OWNS someone to be their boss and slave master.
Sounds like its a wasted cause of a relationship. Move on.
2006-09-30 17:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot force a person to change they will only end up hating you . you have to be true to your self and leed by example and teach him, never do to him what you donot want him to do to you . or comprimise say to him you will change some thing about your self that he dont like if he will do the same .
2006-09-30 17:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to do that . He is always going to do what he wants to .
I'm a women too and I hate it when someone tells me to do something .
2006-09-30 17:03:14 · answer #11 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋