i really like this girl in my class but i'm really shy but i think i've broken the ice with her. Incidentally, both of us know the same person and so we met at party last night. The party was not interesting for either of us so since the party was in her house both of us sat up all night talking from 9 00 to 1:30 at night. We like the same things.I made her laugh quite a bit and i also tried to get to know her better. I didn't try to be someone that i'm not. But now the question is what do i do next. She also thinks that i like another girl who is actually mine and her friend. I'm 14. She asked if i found the friend girl cute and i said nothing because if i say yes then she'll think that i like her and she'll start teasing us, but if i say no then if my friend finds out it'll hurt her feelings. i really like this girl, i can't stop thinking about her since yesterday. Please help.
Boys or girls can help.
2006-09-30 16:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by Soccer lover 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i'm new in this school. does that matter.
2006-09-30 16:56:41 · update #1
even if i do tell her how do i make sure that she stays my friend
2006-09-30 16:59:08 · update #2
yes yes yes you are doing the right things keep it up!! im about your age and im a girl so maybe i can help you out. just the fact that you talked to her and made her laugh might have gotten her to like you or least think about you in a different way. a conversation starts everything and means everything...especially if you're funny! just talk to her every chance you get and give her some time...but not too much, just enough to give her the idea. then go ahead and ask her out, what do you have to lose? if she says no, there's nothing you can do about it, but she probably wont. good luck☺
2006-10-01 08:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you say your other friend is cute doesn't mean you like her, and let your crush know that. Take it slow. Just start by talking more often, hanging out together with others around, and gradually start to spend more time together alone. You're still young honey... it's so cute!!! I remember those days.
2006-10-01 00:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by mizzgov_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better let her know you like her. Then she doesn't think you like the friend. However, you should give it some time before doing it because you just met. It would be kind of awkward for her if someone she didn't know for long just told her that.
2006-10-01 02:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you like her and that you are only friends with the other girl.
2006-10-01 00:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tucker C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. And soon, gently tell her that you like her. She seems nice so she'll understand.
2006-09-30 23:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.......... I had the same problem man, ..............................................................................................................................I know! just say the other girl is nice and all that but you really like her, and if she starts interrogating you some more DO NOT CHANGE THE SUBJECT because if you do you'll pretty much make you're own funeral. Be nice to her and if she and you like each other alot then try to get her something nice.
:)
2006-10-01 01:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Eddy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, so cute.....just act yourself, and she would pick up, girls like shy guys....after all, i kinda wrote the book on this stuff...too bad it never works out for me
2006-10-01 00:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her out.
2006-10-01 02:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow
2006-10-01 08:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋