What is up with that. I have always been faithful, then i caught my husband with a skank. of course he lied to her as well. saying he wasnt getting any home....blah, blah, told me that there was no way he could be attracted to her because she was ugly...(true) but alas they screwed around.....now he still hangs around wants me back......i just want to move on, but how? getting sick of this..why do i choose the wrong type. isnt there anyone nice and faithful out there.????
2006-09-30 16:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by hamhead 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how can i salvage this? the affair lasted 6 months while i was the only one bringing in income while he went to school and he was screwing a previous co=worker who even knew me.
2006-09-30 17:03:48 · update #1
during our marriage i worked very hard to keep things going, providing, paying the bills. he was busy buying games and movies and books, and spending money on her....300 or 400 dollars that he snuck from me a little here and there. plus there is nothing to get 1/2 of here, no house, no kids, etc. so i think he wanted to cheat and have a wife too. i was stupid.
2006-09-30 17:13:50 · update #2
Its called life there are decent people out there but hard to find
2006-09-30 17:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there are. i know it is hard once u have been truly burned like u have been. The best way to find a man who is faithful is to make him go at ur pace and date awhile before u commit to sex or anything that follows. What seems to work for some may not for others but it seems that u need to not be so concerned with having a man but having the right one. So it is possible that u need to go without one till he comes along. You need to get to know his moral and mental stances and see whether he is a man of his word or not before u commit. It is a hard thing to do but it is something that u will feel inside. Dating a person cause u are physically or sexually attracted to him is the wrong reasons and leds to the kinda of things u described.
2006-09-30 23:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If married people cheat they hide it to avoid losing 1/2 the house, car etc etc
I'm as faithful as you can get..I always choose the wrong type too....I always find the women that are in need and get dumped once they get their lives back in order....
I have no answers for type choice.....
2006-10-01 00:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by alphawolf38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there except I was 3 months pregnant when my ex cheated on me. He has since married the woman. Get out while you can! I did and have since remarried. It is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Remember, once a cheater always a cheater. Let him see what he lost! There is no going back once you have crossed the line. . .
2006-10-01 01:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Debra K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be letting guys know that you want "love" right away. Learn about the guy first .. be friends. If he is worth it .. the romance will come soon enough. Don't be desperate... then you end up with that kind of guy. Good Luck to you! :)
2006-09-30 23:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get off your back and leave you alone. You cant trust him and he's a liar. Move on, you dont need his bull just beacause he's realized what a great person hes lost. Its his fault and hes a loser.
2006-10-01 00:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to move on cause he is just gonna keep mooching off of you. Cause you are supporting him and honey a man only do what we let them do to us. I know it's hard but you are only hurting yourself. Cause if it's not her it will be the next.
2006-10-01 00:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They screw around because they don't care. They hide it so they can continue thier fun lifestyle, so that they don't have to make a choice, not because they care.
2006-09-30 23:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to try to salvage your marriage?
2006-09-30 23:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just like man do care about his "banana" but always hide it!
2006-09-30 23:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋