2006-09-30 16:29:57 · 11 answers · asked by limited2gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, I guess it's safe to say ur guy isnt into u anymore. i mean, he dumped u for another girl. enough said. now, u want to win him back. let´s face it: it´s gonna be a lotta work, it´s not impossible, but it´s quite a tall order! So how about you have him over for a straigh-talk where you´re gonna put ur back into laying out in the open how much you want him back into ur life? Try to get ur point across to him! Anything goes! It´s the only shot u have! If that doesnt work, then I say you let go of him. Now that´s gonna be tough, but not tougher than winning him back, as moving on only depends on YOU! U need to come to terms with the fact he wanted out on you. And u wont be helping matters if u hold on to the past! It takes time though. At one point u will feel as though u cannot pull it off. Just keep plugging way, ride out the storm and im sure u will come out of it a stronger person to whom the ex bf is now ancient history!
2006-09-30 17:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Leo L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation but me and my ex are talking (as friends), But just let it be for a couple of months and later on down the line just call him to see whats going on with him... that's what i did to my ex and now we talk and see each other often... i dint know if the same thing will happen to you but it wont hurt to try.
2006-09-30 16:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Angel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to get on with your life. am sorry to say this, but this the only way you ll be happy.
for now just put aside the dating / boyfriend issues and divert yourself by hanging out more with your friends, doing new things and explore life without that guy.
you ll realise that there are better things out there for you.
If you stick around with him you ll only end up hurting yourself more.
Trust me.
Good luck !
2006-09-30 16:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry hun but if he broke up with you, that means that he doesnt want to be with you anymore, it depends on how long ago he broke up wit you but if it wasnt that long ago give him some time to see that the other girl is wrong for him and give him hints that you still like him <
2006-09-30 16:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you, But if he broke up with you, The love is Gone, time to move on..
2006-09-30 16:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,, it depends on what you have in plan for him,, as just being friends or sexual,, either way he is going to find the other girl again,, or maybe another,, it will just go on and on with this fellow,,
2006-09-30 16:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by quitelovableman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, walk away. why would you lower yourself to that level by waiting or even going back to him. move on and find someone worthy of your attention. it's obvious that he's not worth it.
2006-09-30 16:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can do better , don't let his decsion define you. show him that you can be good with out him. find a good friend, go out...meet some guys...maybe you'll find someone better. u desrve someone who wants you, not another girl. good luck.
2006-09-30 16:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by kate <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about it! As much as we want it there is no such thing as love! Life is just hell! I hate my life and want to die!
2006-09-30 16:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR SELF A NEW BOYFRIEND, HE
BROKE UP WITH YOU TO BE WITH SOME ONE ELSE. WHY
PUT YOUR SELF THROUGH THIS, HE MOVE ON, YOU NEED
TO DO THE SAME.
2006-09-30 16:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋