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i know for sure this time i love him but i don't know what to say to him to not make myself look good. i broke up with him last. hes broke up with me once and i have broke up with him twice. i can't even get him to say 2 words to me. so i want yall to give me advice on what to do and what to say

2006-09-30 16:18:29 · 13 answers · asked by LUMBEE GURL 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

13 answers

At this point in time, take a break... give yourself 6 months to a 1 year. I don't deny you might have feelings for him, after all you have been together for awhile, but the feelings you have for him might be a case of
- lost of familiarity and wanting him back; or
- a real love for him.

Either way it doesn't matter... Because for a couple to be able to grow strongly, they need to grow as a couple as well as individuals.

Take this 6 mths - 1 year to grow by yourself... you might find at the end of the period you are over him and have moved on, you might find yourself loving him more. Either way, it will give a period for the wounds in the relationship to heal. Just like any arguments, when you detach yourself for awhile to think, you'd go "that was a dumb argument..." same thing, give you two a period to heal, and if the love is still then, work at rekindling it then...

While there might be a fear that he might move on. If its so, maybe he isn't ready to build a long term relationship with you in the first place...

2006-09-30 16:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by hotchocolate 2 · 0 0

You "know for sure this time [that you] love him?" What? Did you need to take a poll or ask the magic 8-ball? When you shun someone, of course they take it personally. This isn't your dog that you can beat with a hammer and expect it to come running up to you when you call it back into the house, tail wagging and tongue lolling. Here's what to say: NOTHING! Leave the guy alone. you've burned, smashed, destroyed and nuked you bridge with him. If you want to cross it again, you'd better start building it back on your hands and knees.

2006-09-30 23:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0 0

you both need to move on...... there have been a number of break ups so that should tell you that you are not meant to be together. Go out and find someone else. Good luck to you. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear but i think its better advice than trying to get him back. Take care

2006-09-30 23:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0 0

hey if u r not married don't worry about it , there is always bigger and better fish in the sea. I mean if he cant say those two words to you then i think its time to let go. Take the time u need to heal, then let love take its course. You will eventually find someone who will say those two words back to you and mean it.

2006-09-30 23:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by ghost_writer 2 · 0 0

Just like you said the last time,move on.

2006-09-30 23:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0 0

You broke up with him for a reason... statistics are that you will break up with him again.... MOVE ON! There is someone out there who is a better fit for you!

2006-09-30 23:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think that you should just move on there is more fish in the sea if he can't see what he is missing out on then to bad for him.

2006-09-30 23:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine A 1 · 0 0

Move on with your life. you made your mistakes there is nothing you can do anymore.
Good Luck

2006-09-30 23:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by rimples25 3 · 0 0

give it time then IM him or text him and let him know how you feel. it should all work out okay

2006-09-30 23:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0 0

LET HIM GO!!!! Too many fish in the sea!!

2006-09-30 23:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by TIBETTIL 1 · 0 0

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