I just discovered my sexaulity and basically I'm scared to come out of the closet so to speak. What makes it worst is that I'm in love with someone and I'm scared that I'll lose them if I don't do something about my issues.
2006-09-30 16:01:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Start writing a journal. Write everything you feel without any inhibition, but make sure you keep the journal hidden somewhere safe! Eventually you will feel comfortable enough to tell a close friend that you're gay, and you will feel SO relieved when you do. You will slowly tell more and more people, and each time you tell another person it will be easier and easier.
Don't worry that you have to move slowly at first. You have your entire life, and several loves, ahead of you.
2006-09-30 23:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Fabio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we are all scared of what people think as we have
not yet got in the minds of people
it is ok to be gay
being in love with someone, fofills you heart but you may be scared of lossing the love of your family
most of us are scared of losing our friendslove , our love from parents and family
but until you know how they feel you may never really ever move on
love has no boundaries age race gender or disability this means if you love somebody you heart will show you the way but be careful as that same feeling can turn you a stray
2006-10-01 02:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't come out except as you need to, like that one you are interested in. Who needs to know? Take a breath and feel out the person you are infatuated in and forget the rest of the world, they and you will get along just fine without knowing.
2006-10-01 16:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your young then it's just a phase of life and exploring your sexuality is perfectly normal, don't come out just yet come out when you know for sure because if your in the exploring phase then it will pass, only time will tell if your out or not. So for now just relax and don't stress about it.
2006-10-01 02:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with yourself and others. If you have just made this discovery, take time to get comfortable with it... with yourself. Then worry about others. Stay true to yourself and you will be happy. There are many others who have been in your situation. You are not alone. There are many 'interest' groups on Yahoo Chat. ... for one example. It may be easier to chat with others online with a certain amount of anonymity until you feel more comfortable.
2006-09-30 23:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Echo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will Come Out when you are ready. Seek out an older wiser gay person to talk with and share your feelings about coming out with.
2006-10-01 00:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
calm down, ignore the bigots on here and you have done well so far.
the hardest person to come out to is yourself.
be prepared for a few knockbacks but all should be ok
2006-09-30 23:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think the easiest to do is to talk about it to a friend..BEST FRIEND-ish..its easier to handle if someone is there for support. it may not happen instantly..but slowly but surely you'll become more comfortable with yourself...and others knowing.
2006-09-30 23:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Computer Error. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talking about it helps. Join some message board forums and talk about it.
2006-09-30 23:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bigots are assholes. Ignore them. Follow your heart. Those are the best three sentences I can give ya.
2006-09-30 23:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by boobooshurt 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋