Tonight my husband chose to hang out with his drug buddies at a bar. What could I do to piss him off? We live at my parents house cause he isn't a good provider. I can't throw him out of my parents home. I don't even know anybody in the area that I could go talk to. I'm just fed up!!!
2006-09-30 15:59:25 · 18 answers · asked by Asia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go out yourself!! and make sure he gets home first. are hide some where in the house to make it looks like you are gone. then give it about 30 min, then pop out.
2006-09-30 16:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my ex wife! I too was accused of not providing for the family. I worked a job making $12.00 an hour and working 60 hours a week but she made $26 an hour as a nurse, and another $36 an hour as a teacher of nursing. She made the money and spent the money. Now if he is a dead beat like you say he is, you must divorce him. This is what my wife did to me. She went out an dated a man she knew that made money. Two weeks later she filed for an divorce. On my son's birthday, which was another two weeks later, she tells me that she filed for a divorce and to get my sh@t out of the house. I was stuned and at the same time wondering what in the h@ll just happened. You need to do the same thing to this jerk! My ex paid 1000 dollars for a divorce. She had a divorce fund set up a couple years back so she knew she did not love me any more. I hope for the best of you and your situation..
2006-09-30 23:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason you can't throw out although you would need your parents support. If he isn't a good provider throw the bum out before you have children and end up working to provide for both you child and your husband.
As you can tell I have little tolerance for a man that will not support is family but can go drink with his buddies.
You can always talk to a minister or find a social worker or councilor that can give you good advice.
2006-09-30 23:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would really piss a guy off is if you showed up at the bar hes at and flirted with his Buddy's and all the men in the joint , go have fun that'll piss him off,don't just stay home like a good girl go out and party too.
2006-09-30 23:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you throw him out of your parents house they have to see he is no good so they should agree that he should go they should want someone better for their child unless they are saying your mess deal with it and if you were so fed up you would file for separation or divorce so by you staying and just wanting to get back at him your comfortable in your situation your married and living with your mom and dad go figure is this how you seen married life you need to dump that loser asap if he cant provide for you why stay and dont say oh i love him please you and your parents are making it quite easy for him i would stay 2 if i knew i had it like that if he wont take care of you he knows they damn sure will
2006-09-30 23:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to wasteyour time looking for something to piss him off & why can you throw him out of you parent house
thatprobably will make your parent proud of you to see that you have courage to kick the looser *** out
as for you don't have anyone to talk to who better than your parent
2006-09-30 23:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find a friend to go out to the bars with and check up on time and see what he is doing just dont let him see you is all.i hope it gets better and good luck
2006-09-30 23:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Christine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....
try 2gether to find what do u want from urs life nd ur dreams in this life!!
nd when u find it ... u will c ur steps to orient him into this dreams !!
i think that is will make him active to apply this dreams
nd u will live new life with him (F)
2006-10-01 09:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by ForcEs_ of_Nature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From you last question and this one i will suggest you to move for separation from him. Now you shoul not waste time otherwise it will be too late
2006-09-30 23:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on over baby, i got a king size bed and plenty of room for you to just lay out and unwind or undress, or both!!!
2006-09-30 23:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋