I met a girl on line 5 years ago....she has been married 16 years now and has two kids...we met over 12 times in those 5 years..she tells me she finds everything in me she always wanted in a man...not only in our chemistry great in the bedroom....its great in everything we do together...goin out to just havin a lazy day...she has just told me again that she is feelin guilty...and doesent want to see me any more....but she has said this before
we are in love....should i let it go...or try to convince her.that we are happy together and go for it...
2006-09-30 15:50:49 · 24 answers · asked by jaybird789ers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wonderful. You have been having an affair with a married woman for 5 years. That makes you scum, and her a sluut. Heck, you two are perfect for each other. Convince her to leave her husband, and marry her. That way, when you start cheating on her, and she cheats on you; you both can get a taste of what it's like to love sombody that is simply pond scum in human form.
2006-09-30 16:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should feel guilty, she is a cheat!!! If she is unhappy with her marriage, she needs to get a divorce. She should have done that before going to bed with you anyway.
I see you mentioned "just havin lazy days". Have you spent anytime with her kids???
Do you know how they are going to treat you???
Do you realize that if you two get together it will NOT just be the two of you??? Unless of course her kids choose to stay with their dad......
As far as I'm concerned, you both were thinking of nobody but yourselves. There are two kids & a husband who might think he has a good marraige & his wife loves him, when she is actually a lying adulterer. And your not much better. You knew she was married with a family.
If she was willing to spit all over her marriage & be unfaithful, what makes you think she won't do the same thing to you????
She had no problem doing it to a man she has been with for 16 years. A man she has two kids with.
Once a cheat always a cheat....
2006-09-30 16:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you convince someone that she is doing the right thing. She is cheating on her husband she would do the samething to you. If she finally found the man(you) that had everything that she wanted then why is she still married to this man? She cant say it because of the kids. If theyre in a household where they see verbal abuse then it would be better for them if she left.Right now she has seen you about 2 times out of the year so cant really be love. She is telling you everything you want to hear to keep you she hasnt left her husband in five year of seeing you. You deserve better than to wait months just to have a few stolen moments.
2006-09-30 16:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are settling for less. You are definitely getting the short end of the stick. She is married and has children. She has everything she needs and wants while you wait on the sidelines hoping she will ultimately choose you. Yes, she should feel guilty about her lies and deceptive behavior toward you and her husband. You say that you are in love, but do you think she is capable of loving you? She doesn't even love her husband who she exchanged wedding vows with. For once, think about yourself, and break it off with her. One day you will meet a nice girl, the two of you marry; you don't want to ever have to worry about if she is seeing another man behind your back. True love will find you. Just be patient.
2006-09-30 16:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, reality, she is married and has been for quite
some time, she should feel guilty and so should you. If
she finds everything in you she's always wanted, then
why is she still married and for 16 years? You honestly
need to get out of it, she isn't going anywhere, they have kids and a life together, you are only hurting yourself in the long run with this relationship, I don't care how much you love her.
2006-09-30 16:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by frustrated 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let her go! She already cheated on one man she was married to for 16 years. What makes you think that she would be true to you? Not only that,it's a lot different when you're having an affair,and when you're in a real relationship.
2006-09-30 15:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should find someone else, don’t you think you deserve a woman who wants only you. Unless this woman was willing to get divorced but she clearly has no plans too do so. You’re her pie on the side and nothing more.
This woman is not just cheating on her husband she is cheating on her kids as well.
2006-09-30 16:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you fcuking insane??? You shouldn't be out banging ANY married woman. For your sake I hope you're on a lead free diet because if I were the husband and found out, I'd cap you both. Cut the 'I'm in love' schitt. All you're thinking with is your dick.
Are you such a loser that you can't find a single woman? There PLENTY of them out there. Good God man, pull your head out of your @$$.
2006-09-30 16:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her husband is taking all responsibility for family , you are just lover some fun. If you want her don't forget caring the luggage to the rest of your life. Do you responsible to use imagination what and who you going to be and how you are going be and fell 5 years from today.
Don't listen me do what you want just don't fak up.
2006-09-30 15:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let her go. It's been going on for 5 years? And you've only met 12 times in 5 years? It's been very convienient for her hasn't it? She is in no hurry to leave her husband, probably has no desire to. She has been stringing you along.
2006-09-30 15:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋