me and my friend are pregnant we are 13 years old wat can we do................no rude answers please.............we found out september 30, 2006
2006-09-30 15:33:51 · 23 answers · asked by im-due-March-18-2007 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
one of us is 2 monthes and im almost in the 3rd month........please help
2006-10-01 04:05:59 · update #1
Tell you parents...get prenatal care as soon as possible...talk with the fathers and thier parents....speak with a family counselor to weigh your options....and STAY IN SCHOOL
2006-09-30 15:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by mahree 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
The parents or parent is to blame. Children neede supervision. If they do not get it, then they will do what is right in their own eyes. It is a parent's responsibility to bring a child up correctly. The Bible says that a child should be brought up in hte word of God, so that they will not err in life. The Bible is mostly absent in homes today. A large number of households are headed by a single parent. Promiscuity seems to be handed down from generation to generation these days. This girl will be 14 when she has her baby. Her life has just ended because she will spend the rest of her years raising that child. A parent never stops being a parent no matter how old the child gets. We must remember that society is made up of people. To blame everything on "society" is an easy cop-out. People are to blame, and the only people that the finger can be pointed are the parents of this child. If the father is absent, that does not excuse him from blame. He is suppose to be head of the household and present to bring his daughter up in the Lord. God loves this child and her baby. Although "society" will scorn her and discriminate against her and ultimately blame her instead of her parents, God will not abandon her. What does a 13-year-old know about life? Obviously nothing, if she gets herself pregnant. I have seen girls of a lesser age get pregnant, as young as 11. God help us all.
2016-03-27 00:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just found out today? Definitely tel your parents or an adult you can trust. Were you trying to get pregnant together? It is out of the norm that two 13 year olds get pregnant together and find out on the same day. Get some counseling and see a doctor to start taking care of the babies. I hope you can stay friends you can be supportive of each other. What ever path you choose will be a difficult one. God Bless you both.
2006-09-30 16:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by galbee 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
So you are both pregnant? Well I think you need to speak to a doctor and some adult that you both trust. At 13 years of age you are very young to have to deal with this on your own and the sooner you speak to someone and get some advise the better. Don't put it off as the problem will just get worse.
2006-09-30 15:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
Well what i think you should do is tell you're parents you're pregnant, and hope they don't kick you out of the house in those conditions.Hope that you're parents understand and help you in some way, so you won't have to leave school.Also tried to talk to you're boyfriend to see what he can do for you because his the one that got you pregnant.If he doesnt help you go to a counselor and talk to her to see what she suggest you should do.well hope you get everything solve, so you won't have to leave school, if you want you could get child support to help you out some how.Good luck and take care during you're pregnancy period.
2006-09-30 15:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by little star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing you should do is tell your parents. They are going to be very upset at first but they will get over it. Second you need to tell the fathers, they will also be shocked because at your age, I doubt being a father was on their mind at all. Normally a baby is the last thing on a teenagers mind when they have sex. You need to keep the baby, I know there are alot of people saying give it up for adoption, but that should only be a have to thing. There are plenty of centers out there to help you with your pregnancy and baby. Also you will have your parents there, and though they will be upset at first, they will be there in the end to support you. You dont need to go through this alone. You also need to think about your parents as well, since they will be upset you also need to be patient with them and give them time to heal. It will take some time for them so dont get upset with them. I hope that everything works out for you two, and remember that you can stay in school and make a life for yourself. It will be harder but it is possible. Keep your heads up!
2006-09-30 15:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
oh my gosh 13 wow, i would have been scared but i dint have sex that early..thats a scary thought..you have to tell a doctor a nurse, a parent, someone who can help you and tell you your options cuz soon your mom and dad will notice you stomach and the way you act so speak up thats what you need to do hun, and good luck and dont make a bad choice, think it over what ever you plan on doing.
2006-09-30 17:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by sexc_baby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, now. If you wait they will only get upset and mad at you. Contact a planned pregnancy center in your area and see if you can get free prenatal care or help from a charity. Tell the father! Especially important if you plan to keep the baby and want child support. Research adoptions. If you want to give your baby up for adoption, know that there are open adoptions now. You will be able to visit your baby and she will know who you are, but you will not take care of her and she will have parents who can provide for her. Please do not get an abortion. They are horrible experiences to go through and there are complications that one can get from them. They also kill the baby, and it is much better to just give it up for adoption than to kill it. Also, check or have your parents check, on how you can get schooling once you are visibly pregnant. Some schools will expel you if you get pregnant, private ones mostly.
2006-09-30 15:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by mminuyasha 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
There are many options open to you girls. First off, talk to your parents. If you absolutely refuse to do that, find a planned parent hood. They will give you all the options available. There are of course the abortion, adoption, and keeping the child. It is ultimately up to you as you are now considered an emancipated minor.
2006-09-30 15:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by jade_d05 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Do your parents know? I hope so.
Talk with them and your spiritual leaders (priest, rabbi, pastor) for guidance.
You are both way too young to go thru this alone.
With prayer and the proper support you will be ok.
Having a baby will change your lives forever, don't let it stop you from pursuing your dreams, goals. You only have one chance to live, and so does this new life you will be forever attached to.
Do what is right for each of you. You will be responsible for this life for the rest of YOUR life (not just the next 18 years). This child is yours and nothing will change that.
God be with you...
If you would like to talk with me, email me at revliwilliams@yahoo.com. I will be more than happy to chat with you/parents online, and pray with and for you both.
2006-09-30 15:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
And how did you find this out? Tell your parents if you think you're pregnant.
2006-09-30 15:39:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋