Ladies only please (B/C)?

Question

I have protected sex, we use condoms but sometimes i worry that one might break. I want to be on birth control just to be safe but i had an allergic reaction to the pill form. I tried to ask a gyno a few months ago (b4 I was having the sex) but the only advice she gave me was to " do some research, then talk to me about it".
Does anyone use any alternatives to the pill? what works best for you? how safe is it? my head is spinning trying to sort through all of the information out there.
Thanks

i'm 21. We have sex 1, maybe 2 times a week, no more thoughg. and this is the second person i have had sex with if thats what you mean be experiance.
I am also scared about being rapped, partly b/c i am paranoid i guess but i would rather be safe than sorry.

Answer 1

There are a few options other than hormonal birth control out there. I'm guessing that's what you mean when you say you are "allergic" to the pill form, that your body cannot handle synthetic hormones. Some women just cannot take them.

You could try a copper IUD (intra uterine device) that uses no hormones. It makes the uterus inhospitable for conception. There is another type of IUD that uses tinytinytiny amount of hormones that some hormone-sensitive women can use called the Mirena IUD. Both these IUDs are good for five years.

You could try the Fertility Awareness Method along with the condoms. It uses a combination of your body's basal temperature, cervical mucus, and I think a few other things to tell you when you are most fertile and least fertile. You have to use it religiously and not skip days of tracking. It's very reliable when used correctly. If you want to know more about it, look for the book called Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler.

There is also Norplant but I think that uses hormones and may not be available in the US. It's an implant put in the arm. You could use a diaphragm along with spermicidal foam/gelly, or Lea's Sheild, which is an insertable strip (like a listerine pocket pack thing) that is spermicidal. The Lea's sheild can be a little messy and you have to wait a few minutes after you put it in for it to "melt" before you can engage in intercourse.

Answer 2

the Nuva ring is pretty good. It's similar to a diaphragm which is also a decent method however it's effective 85% as oppose to the Nuva ring which is 99% There is a shot called Depoprovera Also there is the Ortho Evra skin patch. However there are greater risk for blood clots and such with the patch for certain people as it is at the center or some lawsuits. IUD's or Noraplant are usually more long term they are implanted devices.Find a Doctor who will help you decide what is best for you and your lifestyle.

Answer 3

If you are going to be sexually active a good form of birth control is condom along with foam. There is relatively few side effects from the foam and along with the condom would be effective. Going on the pill as you know does not take care of STD or HIV so you're doing good research. Plus the side effects of the pill can cause alot of problems especially as you get older and if you smoke. Again no sex is probably far safer, but you don't state your age or level of sexual activity

Answer 4

I have been using the Ovulation Method for over 8 years without any accidents. I also had very adverse reactions to hormonal birth control, and the latex in condoms often irritates me to near blisters ( if you don't have a steady or trust worthy partner, I don't recommend doing without.). So I had to learn to understand my body's rythms. I found this a wonderful, spiritual and liberating experience. The ovulation method basically entails you keeping track of your mucus. When fertile, you will discharge a very clear, stretchy mucus similar in texture to egg whites. If held between 2 fingers, it could strecht over an inch without breaking apart. This happens between 11 and 16 days from the start of your cycle (which starts the first day of you period, NOT the last). The actual date depends on the lenght of your cycle and can vary from month to month, so tracking in a calendar isn't your best bet. (this is not the rythm method). When you wipe yourself after urinating, you cannot miss this mucus, since it often stretches out and makes wiping slippery. I highly recommend getting to know your body. It's not as hard as it seems to some women. It can be a truly spiritual experience.

Finally, please erase from your mind ideas of rape. Paranoia has a way of putting you in circumstances to manifest your fears.
Just be sensible where you go and with who, but don't live in fear.

Be well.

Answer 5

What a terrible doctor! Is there a planned parenthood around?? If so go there! There are shots and patches. Those are the most common forms. Some women have Intra-Uterine Devices (IUD) placed, but most doctors will not insert them until after the woman has had children.

Answer 6

yeah the doc sounds a lil wack...anywho I had to quit taking them because they were giving me yeast infections.whatever you decide to do just be careful because I made the mistake of just *going for it* and apparently the condem thing didn't work out so now here I am 6 years later with a 4 yr old and in a relationship thats getting harder everyday.I made a mistake and I'm not saying that you will too but it can happen and I wouldn't wish my life on anybody just to give you an idea so good luck hun!

Answer 7

Get a new doctor! You were supposed to research options on your own?

I tried the Nuva ring, loved it, hated the price tag. I now have the Paraguard IUD, which has no hormones. I like it, and it lasts 10 years. Hope this was helpful.

Answer 8

You could try the shot but, It could give you the same reaction. I was on the pill and had chest pain. Then went to depo(the shot) and my hair started coming out. Go to another doctor b/c there are many alternatives.

Answer 9

if i was u i would defintly find another gyn doctor,,,she is suppose to tell you about different types of birth control things,,,

there is the depo shot you take that once every 3 to 6 months,, that works pretty good,, one shot then forget about it,,

just watch your weight,,, it can make u gain some extra weight,,,

good luck and please be safe,,,

Answer 10

If I were you I would find a different gynecologist. She is supposed to discuss other options with you not tell you to research it yourself!
Maybe you could look into the depo shot?