Quite interesting...It sounds, pretty much, that your boyfriend's friend, is 'really' insignificant. (*at least to you-in reality-) but, as far as the symbol, he represents, it shows something, completely different. (*Note: as I'm editing, this, dream interpretation, does not cost 'great sums' of $$$) I interpret dreams, quite often, for no charge, whatsoever)
Getting back to the dream...I'm not trying to say that the 'other' guy, is some type of romantic interest in reality, but, rather a symbol, of your conscience? Perhaps, even an aspect of yourself, trying to tell you, something, that is hidden in the back of your subconscious.
Your coat hanging in the walk-in closet, represents, at first an openness...Your not hiding, anything. Green represents, growth and or progression, something that may be 'coming' to the surface, or revealed. The hedgeblade represents, something from your past, that may 'cut' or tear your current relationship up
I believe, that you feel that something from your past could ruin, your current relationship. Or, possibly, you feel that something, that your boyfriend, is doing, or has already done (*even in the past) will split you up. The bed, no mattress, represents a (maybe past situation) where there was intimacy, but, no feelings, and someone feels guilty about it. Somehow, something you have done in the past, has made you have more difficulty trusting...or if you were cheated on, in the past, has made you, more leary, about your current relationship. But, one thing, for certain, the 'blade', being hidden, in the coat, does represent, a secret, that 'you' have hidden...(*even, if it's only a fear)
(*The kiss, the other woman, etc, all clarify, that this dream has a connection with your feelings about your current relationship)
Hopefully, perhaps, some of this may help you to sort, things out...
2006-09-30 17:25:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, this is my take on the dream. But note that I'm not a dream interpreter.
I think the dream is really about yourself and your insecurities.
Rooms in houses usually mean parts of ourselves. This was not a strange house. There is some familiarity with it as it's your friend's house. The house might represent yourself, though at the same time, you don't really feel 'at home' with yourself or about yourself. It could represent your subconcious, or it could represent your physical body.
The boyfriend's friend might be an aspect of yourself. We are each made up of different character aspects, such as feminine side, masculine side, child side, nurturing side, etc. Since you know him and he's not a stranger, I think he might be a more masculine, stronger side of yourself, which is trying to tell you something.
The hedgeblade in your coat means something hidden or buried deep within. It is large and significant, and potentially dangerous. It could represent something which is used as a weapon or a cutting or trimming instrument. It is somehow connected to your outer persona but is unseen. Green can mean growth and development, or it can mean healing and medicines.
His kissing you and saying he loves you too, even though you had taken the hedgeblade from him, may be a message that you need to forgive yourself and accept your own shortcomings. The gifts also point to a similar message. I find it intriguing that the bed, as described, might be a hospital bed. But because it was dismantled, it may mean that you don't really need it or that you don't have the need any longer.
The beautiful young woman and feeling jealous about her is probably what your insecurity is all about. You may secretly want to be younger, more beautiful but something is holding you back, maybe lack of courage.
The wanting to feel younger could be psychological, as in you feel you're on a different wavelenth from a loved one and are wondering if you're meant for each other. Or it could be physical, as in you're thinking of going for plastic surgery in the hope that that would solve a problem.
I think you feel insecure about yourself or your looks, and it may have something to do with your current relationship. The dream seems to be telling you that it's okay to be yourself and do what you want to do, even if you have to show a stronger side of yourself which may have been hidden. Or even if you want to go for the plastic surgery.
Dreams need to be interpreted with the perspective of the dreamer's life in mind. Without knowing what's going on in your life, the interpretation may be off the mark.
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2006-10-01 11:14:11
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answered by Spica 4
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