I've known vicki forever, and i love her to death, except we're total opposites. I have this "clique" kind of,but shes not in it because she doesnt like the people, and doesnt have the same interests as us. I try to balance my two groups of friends,except vicki feels left out and i miss out on my other group of friends alot. what should i do?
2006-09-30 14:51:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thats hard....
if she was your really your friend she would accept that you have more than one group of friends. you can have more than one best friend.
You guys can still be best friends and not hang out at school. there is always weekends.
2006-09-30 14:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by sexy bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have two best friend and we have been friends since highschool. We all have different friends and mutual friends and we still hung out together most of the time.You can balance the friendship between the two clique. I am sure your friend has other people she can hang out with as well. I would let her know that youre not leaving her out and that your friendship hasnt changed. She doesnt like your other friends so you dont invite her when you hang out with them. Whats her reason for not liking these females maybe after time she will but into then balance the two and dont feel as if you need to make a choice.
2006-09-30 22:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had a best friend since i was in grade 1. I am in university and we are still best friends.
You just know when someones or best friend or not. But either way i say u be friends with both sides, but always keep in mind that probably Vicki will be there for you more one day...as u get older u will see who ur real friends are....
2006-09-30 21:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by ๑The Goddess๑ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start making time for both of them FAST! that happened to me ( i had a best friend forever and stupid " cliques" got in the way so she found some other friends and now we never talk and our friendship was viciously torn apart) Treasure your best friends and do what you would want done unto you
2006-09-30 21:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by the_smart_one33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try letting Vicki get to know your group and have some fun if shes feeling left out. or you could spend one on one time with her instead if just with your "clique". she will probably like that idea. you know, its no fun being left out. im always left out of my friends and i don't like being by myself. its hard.
2006-09-30 21:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to vicki and your other friends i am sure you will be able to work things out i am almost 16 and i really know what your goin through
2006-09-30 21:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by DEVIL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let vicki join in with your group
2006-09-30 21:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes friends grow apart they like different things and people if you are a girl i go up to her how is my old dear friend doing i miss hang out with you come over sometime so we can stay close
2006-09-30 21:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by tony b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the same pickle i am in, i'm in two clicks too, this is what i do, my one group of friends i only get to see at lunch, the second group i see all day, so, like when i eat lunch, i get all of my friends to sit at the same table, if they are your friend, they all do have one interest in common, YOU!
2006-09-30 21:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by TexasGirl_300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is like one of those urban myths, like Bigfoot, John Holmes, and happily ever after. It's better to think of people in terms of "Allies" or "Aquaintances." That way, if one of them pisses you off, just end your alliance, or don't talk to them again.
2006-09-30 21:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋