Please, I need help. My girlfriend and I have been together for 22 years already since we were in 2nd grade. I have been friends with her since kindergarten. Our parents were friends. We were married. She filed a divorce. I know I didn't cheat on her. I am really sad that my wife left me. Is there a way to get over her? I know she is the perfect one for me. I heard that suicide is the best way to get out of life's problems a week ago. I am guessing after my death, it will be like 10 years before I was born but I cannot remember anything about 10 years before I was born since I didn't exist. I tried to kill myself recently. I need help. What would you do if you were me?
2006-09-30 14:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't u dare kill yourself!!! i feel your pain...it must hurt.... i hope u willl find happiness soon. she doesn't know what good she is missing out of...someone who loves her so much is soo hurt.... she probably misses u!
2006-09-30 14:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by hot_mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
You need someone you can talk to until you feel secure again. I would recommend not killing yourself - you have a purpose and reason for being here -. If you can, call upon the suicide hotline in your phone book. Call a local therapist and let them know it is urgent and what your intentions are. Call a local chaplin,priest or counselor if you cannot afford a therapist. There is a reason for this change in your life and it may mean you are meant for something or someone else. Also - start writing about your situation, your feelings, the past the present and don't stop until you see someone to talk about it.
Regards -
2006-09-30 21:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Erik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetie, I know it might feel like your world has come crashing down on you and that there is nothing left to live for because the love of your life doesn't feel the same way you do anymore....but trust me, it's not the end of the world. Understandable your heart hurts and feels like its gonna explode or like its been ripped out or trampled on but believe me this is life and things like this happen to everyone everyday. You need to be strong for yourself. Pick yourself up and move on. Obviously she is not the one for you, there's plenty of others out there. Just take it as a lesson learned in life...some people come into your life for a season or a reason....she was in your life for a reason. A life lesson to show you that you can love and once you lose that love that you can love again. Trust me when I tell you I've had my heart torn apart many times and didnt think I could love again, but I was wrong. I found the man of my dreams whom I love very much. Killing yourself isnt the answer. Its the easy way out, pick urself up and move on. The best revenge in life is showing that person not that you can't live without them, but that you're life is better off without them and that you have moved on to bigger and better things.
2006-10-02 09:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help; suicide, not cool at ALL. That's only gonna make things worse, not better, for the people around you. You really loved this girl and now she's gone, but heck, don't contemplate suicide over it. Talk it out with a counseler, close friend or relative. If you're feeling this bad, it's time to go to someone.
2006-09-30 21:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd get over it my god anbody would assume that u r rocky dennis reincarnated , dude forget other fish in the sea cuz evidentally u r sick y would u try and kill urself over a woman as many woman as u probably pass in your town of maybe 45 people and half r probably ur cousins , i mean really she left u what do u mean she is the 1 for u , the 1 for u is u. move on be strong and go tip cows over, do u know how easy it is 2 kill urself? alot eassier than picking up the pieces and moving on BUT U NEED TO MOVE ON. PLEASE GET SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP B4 ITS 2 LATE/
2006-09-30 21:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please pull yourself up by associating with your friends and family. I was married that long and it took 10 years to heal. I was sort up nuts(because of this) and did not know how to help myself. Stay around positive people but be warned it is a real drag to hear same sad story over and over. You are an individual who deserves happiness but it will evade you for awhile. Love yourself and try to go on.
2006-09-30 21:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by ARLENE H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. Time is the only thing that will help, taking your life is not the answer. You have much more coming your way.
2006-09-30 21:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell the devil hes a lie my life is worth living and no ones is as important to me as me dont allow the devil to steal from you if you love her love her enough to let he go it will hurt but you have to be strong and pray to GOD for help.dont give up dont give in you will and can make with god trust me i no it hurt but the pain will ease up find a gym and work out go walking go to a good comedy movie are hang with some friends do not sit at home alone stay strong
2006-09-30 21:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry go find someone else move on. you will be glad you did. Time will heal. Your not the first guy to go though this. This is a start by reaching out. Hang in there.
2006-09-30 21:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On...Don't be a wimp and give up on life..there is so much more to see and learn about!
2006-09-30 21:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋