I want to have sex with my boyfriend. But i don't know how to approach him about it. What do i do?
2006-09-30 12:54:57 · 19 answers · asked by angeleyz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it depends what kind of guy he is. dont just jump into the subject of you wanting to have sex with him. it may make him uncomfortable. and im sure youve heard this, but make sure he has a condom on when it happens. you dont want to screw your life up. but just remember that both of yall are comfortable and ready when it happens. good luck.
2006-09-30 12:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by shireycw 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think and ask yourself 1ST--> ARE YOU READY TO HAVE SEX NOW? Or the qn just crossed you mind or you feel that you are being influenced by peer pressure thnking SEX is a IN Thing.. and you want to have a feel of how sex is like? Nah, then you are wrong. You should not give your body to your BF if you are not ready. Cos once you have your 1st sexual intercourse with him, you will at then lost your virginity, your chasitity( NO Longer 100% pure, virtuous) UNLESS, you are ready. But since you ask for advice, To have safe and protected sex, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM(NEW& CLEAN) when having sex. Cos think you should kw that the chances of getting pregnant if you don't use a condom is high. You might get pregnant and you might not be ready then to be a mother. Let NATURE Takes It Own Course... Arouse him is one method. If he rejected you, dun be sad. Normally, it's guy who usually take he initial steps to ask their GF for SEX and not the other way round. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-01 00:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hey! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is not something that should be taken lightly. You can only give your virginity to one person. I lost my virginity at 17 to my boyfriend, who I'd only been dating for 2 weeks. We stayed together, and are now married w/ a beautiful daughter. But I really regret rushing into things. We weren't in love (although he told me 'I love you'-which any guy will say to get you to sleep w/ them). I love him now, of course, but wish our first time had been more special. It was rushed, and it wasn't at all romantic and sweet like I thought it would be. Wait until you're married- sex is important enough to wait until the timing is right.
2006-09-30 22:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First get on birth control pills. Remember they take a while to start being effective so always use condoms to help prevent STD's and pregnancy. Since the pill isn't 100% percent effective always use condoms too. Methods like pull out and withdrawl dont work. So always protect yourself. You just need to talk to him about if and if you arent comfortable it means your not ready for sex
2006-09-30 20:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't give it up just yet! There's other ways of getting pleasure such as masturbation, or you two can try using your hands on each other, but PLEASE don't have sex! There are too many teenagers on here who are 15 and pregnant, and STILL don't know how it happened! It's crazy! Wait to have sex until your boyfriend can afford condoms!
2006-09-30 20:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not trying to sound like your mom or anything like that, but the best advice is DONT DO IT. You are young, you need to enjoy life and just because he puts a condom on or you get on birth control pills does not mean you will not get pregnant or get some weird illness from him. Enjoy your life, be your own and not just another statistic!
2006-09-30 20:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty_p.r. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before you, "you have sex" you have to knoiw what it is exactly that you do want??? SEX is not something you do, - SEX is WHO YOU ARE. Eiether you're a female or a male. Think about it... giving yourself (your precious self) in such a sacred manner is something that you can never take back. Him telling you that, "I love you..." is not saying why he wants to be responsible to receive such a preciious gift as yourself. He can also LOVE his dog but what does he LIKE about you that he would be willing to wait.... Take Care.
2006-09-30 20:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by ELIZABETH W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
6 days ago you wanted to know how to tell a boy you like him and you are already wanting to have sex?
2006-09-30 20:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by tom n 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have the same problems sometimes.. Just like text him or call him and be like baby your great.. and everything. start kissing him and taking off his clothes he will start getting the idea and take urs off .. Grab the condom and off you go.. Hold on tight for lift off!!
2006-09-30 21:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a child who would want to give you tips especially if you can't approach him about. These things need to happen naturally.
2006-09-30 19:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋