someone else told him. Now he's super mad at me because we didn't come to him. He's not talking to me either...what can I do to make the situation better? I want his support too but I was really afraid to tell him that I was pregnant...NOW WHAT?! It's really stressing me out :'(
2006-09-30 12:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by jbfin2005 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If it is your boyfriends dad, shouldn't he be the one to tell him? Some people spend too much time focusing on their selves, this is suppose to be a happy time, and he is pouting because he wasn't told first. Don't worry about it, stress is bad for the baby. Not everyone gets to be the first told, someone always knows before you do. I think he is probably just hurt because he heard it from someone else, instead of one of you. Tell him your sorry, that you understand that you should have told him, but you though he would have been mad about it. If that doesn't help, then nothing will, and he will get over it as soon as the baby is born.
Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-09-30 13:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by tnmomof2as 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is hurt by this as you told someone rather than him. Apologise and show him the baby ultrasound pics this might change his mind and try to include in him a few decisions along with your bf. Also try not get that stressed out over this, as its can happen and relax try the best you can do in this situation. Good Luck
2006-09-30 12:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by men 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still need to actually "tell" him. Even though he knows, you may want to organise a time to chat and try to sit down and explain it from the start.
Try to include him as much as possible, because it sounds like he wants to be in the loop.
He may be mad at you now, but he will probably forget all about it when your cute bump starts to show and especially when your beautiful baby arrives.
All will be forgiven.
Good luck.
2006-09-30 12:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you're telling us- you were afraid to tell him you were pregnant because you didn't want him to be disappointed in you (that will sound really good too, lol). You're terribly sorry and hate the fact that you hurt his feelings as it was never your intention. Buy him something with "Grandpa" on it to soften the blow. Buttering him up when he's angry couldn't hurt, right?
2006-09-30 15:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get over it! We told my parents MONTHS before my husband told his and they only live 2 miles away.
You tell who you want and when or IF you want to.
2006-09-30 12:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Alison 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize, tell him that you are sorry and you did plan to come to him but you wanted to get others advice first
2006-09-30 12:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is none of his business unless your are under age. Ignore him if he really cares he will grow up and come around.
Good Luck
2006-09-30 12:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by samanny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id just tell him im sorry and tell him you were just soo excited you thought youd already announced to everyone? lol i dont know when we get pg again were not tellin my family soo...lol i dont know...i dont care about my outside family like u care
2006-09-30 12:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give him a little time to calm down.no father likes to hear that their babygirl is pregnant.trust me it's gonna take time...
2006-09-30 12:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by nuknboot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize..... just tell him you weren't thinking.... and that you were afraid to tell him.
2006-09-30 12:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋