hey. so I'm a senior in hs and i had a group of friends but one of the girls didn't like me so now none of them are talking to me. and i don't know how to approach another group or get in with them because i was friends with the other girls since 5th grade. any suggestions?
2006-09-30 11:58:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
i did try talking to her she ignored me and so did my other "friends" idk whats going on. i even said i was sorry for whatever i did but none of them will talk to me.
2006-09-30 12:29:13 · update #1
I'd suggest having it out with the girl and finding out what her problem is and seeing if it can be resolved. If it can not and the others won't chat with you then they are obviously not very good friends for you. Perhaps looking for somebody sitting alone at lunch and chatting with them to find out if you have anything in common and if you could perhaps build new friendships from that point of view.
2006-09-30 12:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Miss England 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cold. Can you talk to the one who doesn't "like" you? Maybe if you ask her what's up she'll come out with it. In these types of things it's usually a complete misunderstanding. Maybe she thinks you said something you didn't really say. Or more likely she thinks you like a guy that she likes. Set her straight. What about those other girls? Maybe they can tell you whats going on then you can set them all straight. I'm really sorry and I know how hard this must be for you.
Add'l. I guess you are going to have to have a cooling off period. In the mean time, don't let it get you down. Go on with your life and don't engage in ill feelings with them. Some of those girls will figure out what they are doing is wrong and they will come around. Surely you know some other people you can start to do things with. Find someone from some of your classes. You probably know other people you have things in common with. Extracurricular clubs or sports...try some of these avenues. Talk to the school counselor or another trusting adult. Maybe that will help and make you feel better. She or he won't judge you. What about those girls' parents. Don't they realize you aren't in the group anymore. I would certainly say something to my kids if I noticed something like that.
Cheer up. Don't let it get you down. This is pretty normal for high school and there is nothing wrong with you. Chances are you wouldn't have stayed friends for very long after high school and once you go to college. You will make lots of friends at college. If you are planning to go to college.
2006-09-30 19:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been friend that long and she won,t talk to you. What did you do ? Or is she really witchy?
I don,t know school is tough because of clicks.
This is your last year and in five most of these people won,t even be in your life at all.
Try saying "hi" to another girl on campus and may the next day do it again and after a couple of those hellos then you can ask her if she like to hang somewhere with you.
2006-09-30 20:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club, a sports team, anything that gets you involved with new people.
Or better yet, make up with your old friends. Knowing people and being that close for that long has got to mean something! You never know, the seperation may be over something silly. And if they truely are your friends, you can make it all better or agree to disagree! If not and they dont take you back, you're probably better off. Good Luck!
2006-09-30 19:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by )o( 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a senior so your life is getting ready to change,big time.So you are going to be okay.The sad thing here is that your so -called friends will actually let one girl rule their life.Maybe they will grow up some day.
2006-09-30 21:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your so called friends since grade 5 .. that bites hard..find a friend first then gradually work to getting more . trying to be friends with a lot at first may be rough starting out.
2006-09-30 19:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
POP the collars on the lacoste and God will show u da path!
2006-10-01 01:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by idunno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be you and be confident of who you are and know you are made for a reason and that is not because you need to fit into some klick of certian people just be you .
2006-09-30 19:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by emedic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, when you become an adult, you will not have a need for friends.
2006-09-30 19:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by PUDDIN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as life changes,so the friends just don't know why they seperated.sometimes they just want other friends.thats how life goes:there is an expiration date of each friendship a person has .............................................................................
2006-09-30 19:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋