i have this friend, and i feel like she is just using me.
i have my license and she doesn't,
and the only time she asks me to go somewhere with her, is when she needs something, and someone to take her.
we never go anywhere, just to have fun.
also, we always go out to eat and she asks me to buy her food.
i give her what she wants, because i want to be her friend... but now i'm starting to feel really used
2006-09-30 11:49:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lets say your her mother figure for now.....
2006-09-30 11:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by kournikova57k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well this time 97% people r mean and selfish deeply in southeren asia and others those who have long realatin like uncles and watever so its better u still stay with her sometime u have to be separate and sometime u will need her to help u and if she dont help u she wont go out with u to eat or to drive she would think i was wronge so any ways i really dont know because what i love is to give and give and wont take back after i give so its better and it depends on u u can make allot of people happy she would get example how you are and may be in future she become rich allot u would be her pattner so always wait for her and something she would give u even though its like u paying her for freindship if she was annoying u dont know her then u dont have to give i guess but shes ur friend so u give her as shes with u bye hope u understand me
2006-09-30 19:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.Philosopher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems clear to me that your friend is unaware of your feelings. Perhaps the next time she requests a drive you could share with her how you feel. You really have nothing to lose here since this one-sided friendship will unlikely continue much longer if you continue to feel used.
2006-09-30 19:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Gary D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is useing you, ditch her with friends like that who needs enemys? I know its hard, trust me Ive lost my share of friends in my life time just rember that not every one in the world will be friends with you and shes odviously one of them...theres better people you could hang with, take it from some one whos been there.
2006-09-30 19:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by musicnut732 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just starting to fell used? man ur slow. stop trying to buy friendship. the next time she asks you to bring her somewhere ask her if she has gas money. if she says no then like peel off right in her face!!!! serves her right for using you like that!!!!! stupid $lut
2006-09-30 18:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just automatically cut off ties with her.. tell her that you are feeling used. If she continues to have you be her little taxi and buy her food, that is totally unfair to you... I think it would be time to ditch her!
2006-09-30 18:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it sounds like she is using u i had a friend that used me to become friends with the preps and then she told me we werent friends anymore after she became friends with the preps
2006-09-30 18:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-30 18:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to brake it to you but she is TOTALLY using you...I have been used before many times...b/c I was soo generous
2006-09-30 18:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by crzycoolswmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is walking all over you
2006-09-30 19:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋