probly not in the right section for this question
2006-09-30 11:47:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
start talking about one of your "friends" who recently starting swinging, just to gauge his reaction. In saying it, remark to him that you find it intriguing. See what happens
2006-09-30 12:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yo JD: I think I know what you mean by an open relationship. Don't do it! Trust an older woman, ME - they lead to divorce - and in most cases its the partner that wanted the open relationship that end up not being able to accept the attention and intimacy their partner receives.Try an open concept with your partner.See a sex therapist - they can do wonders for you in more ways then the bedroom. Today, with HIV being contracted by 4 north Americans, under the age of 35 - every hour, monogamy is the only way to go. Good Luck, and I hope I helped you. Don't do it..its also a TERRIBLE blow to a man's ego, to think your not being satisfied at home.. (you know what I am talking about) .. if you not satisfied and want to look around, get a divorce first.
2006-09-30 19:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In what way do you mean an open relationship? Do you mean doing things separate or swinging? That can make a huge difference.
If you are gonna go that route then you need to play together. However before you do that you need to have a long talk with your hubby because he might not be open to it at all.
You may wanna ask him what he thinks about going to a swing club and take it from there...you do not have to do anything but it might pique his interest...just do not go and do things without his knowledge.
2006-09-30 18:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I read all the previous answers given and well listen to peaches!! Why do you want an open relationship?Are you unsatisfied ...what got you interested in open relationship?Have you really thought about this? It could lead to a divorce are you ready?
~Best wishes~
2006-09-30 19:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he would be interested in an open relationship. Tell him you read an article about it and how couples really like it, and see what his reaction is, and then ask him if he wants one.
2006-09-30 18:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probley right about the time he files for a divorce
2006-09-30 19:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a divorce attorney. Why be married if you can't be faithful?
2006-09-30 18:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by blueprairie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A bit late now your married isn't it.
2006-09-30 18:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy Diamond 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
define what your idea of open is...but if you are getting bored you might want to think that it is time to part ways
2006-09-30 18:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you don't, you just have to hope he cheats on you first and then you can have your excuse.
2006-09-30 18:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by bec3tiny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋