i've been avoiding my friend because i learned shes a lezpian!i m strait and i dont want her to end up likeing me cuz thats so gross!what should i do?should i keep avoiding her or what?
2006-09-30 11:40:07 · 14 answers · asked by minnesota sweetheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should also stick your head in the sand.
you must do a lot of things that are gross ,
sick, and maybe you are even heterosexual. I think
everyone should avoid you. With that attitude
who wants to be around YOU ?
2006-09-30 11:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just wrong. You shouldn't avoid a friend because of her orientation!!!!! Who cares is they are straight,bi,lesbian,white,black,yellow,purple,orange or whatever! You're not a very good friend if you can't except someone for who they are. I'm sure if she was a good friend she will keep in mind that you are straight. Stop being so judgemental!
2006-09-30 18:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! if you were her friend before she came out then you still should. the last thing she wants is to find that she cant tell any one that she is gay and that every one will disert her because of it. being lesbian doesnt make her any less human. im sure avoiding her has givin her a hint that you arent confortable with her likin you. i think you should call her up and ask if she needs someone to talk to.
2006-09-30 18:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do? you should get a dictionary. it is 'accept' not except, and lesbian not 'lezpian', and 'liking' not 'likeing'.
if she's a true friend, dont give up your friendship just because of her sexuality. confess your feelings about how you're uncomfortable, but dont criticize her being lesbian.
stay her friend---she'll need friends at this time
2006-09-30 18:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by meg *__* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of her the same way that you thought of her before you found out she was a lesbian, or pretend you dont know.
2006-09-30 18:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by osembob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heehee u wrote lezzpian. Just drift awat slowly and tell her u got other plans ans slowly u'll stop talkin. Or. tell her ur going to a conservative republicans rally.
2006-09-30 18:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by calde456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should.just keep avoiding her shell just forget that u were friends with her. or when she comes front of you start talking with another girl.
2006-09-30 18:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by sanjana r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if a guy likes ylu, you don't hang out with him? It's the same thing. Plus, why would she like someone who she knows wouldn't be interested in her?
2006-09-30 18:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, I bet she doesn't even care about you not being able to spell or use proper grammar. She still calls you friend despite it.
2006-09-30 18:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by SST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT gross....I'll bet if you tried it once you'd love it!! At any rate don't dump your friend, just don't do it with her if you really don't want to. And don't worry..it's not contagious!
2006-09-30 18:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋